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<div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by SkySlash:<br>Okay, Meta & Starbuck, I've thought about the question on what do I mean by precedent, and I think have a non-confusing answer that should finally explain what I meant.<br><br>We have established that it is not only okay to restrict religion when it harms others, but that it is necessary, and we are in agreement on that. <br><br>Here begins the description of what I was stating concerns me, and mind you, we aren't there yet, but the horizon is visible. My concern on how far we go in setting precedent involves theoretical future limitations on religious freedom, in the interest of "protecting" children for the sake of progressing society.<br> </div>
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<br>Thnks for taking the time to do this. Now allow me to go and rip it all apart -- View image here: http://episteme.meincmagazine.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif --<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Example: Tolerance for Homosexuality<br><br>Certain religions believe that homosexuality is an absolute sin,<br> </div>
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<br>Good for them. They are welcome to. <br><br>Certain religions also teach that other religions are sins against their god. Certain religious people feel that other *races* are a sin. Certain religions feel that having sex out of marriage is a sin. Certain religious people feel that birth control is a sin. Some believe that evolution is a lie. etc. etc. etc.<br><br>They are all welcome to their beliefs. What they are not welcome to is the the belief that just because they think this way that the rest of society (or the gov) has to humor them. <br><br>You are free to exercise your religion (as long as it doesn't intrude on others), but that does not mean you are free from having to deal with the fact that others won't like or follow your religious beliefs.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> and they do not under any circumstances, want their children to be taught that tolerance for homosexuality is ok.<br> </div>
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<br>That's totally fine. They have a perfect solution. Homeschool their kids, or send them to a religious school. <br><br>They do *not*, under any circumstance, have the right to believe that in a public education that the state has any need to kowtow to their belief system when teaching children. Some fundies don't want evolution taught. Too fucking bad. The needs of the state to teach about science override your religious desires. Some fundies don't want integrated schools. Too fucking bad. The needs of the country to act in a non-discriminatory fashion to people regardless of race trumps your backwards beliefs. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> These same religions find the idea of gay marriage to be a fundamental breakdown of society,<br> </div>
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<br>They are welcome to think that. They are even welcome to teach that. No one is stopping them. This is the same with things like evolution, birth control, racial issues, and whatnot. You want to teach your kids that stuff, fine. But don't think that if you then send them to public school that they're not going to be told different things.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> and from a religious perspective, it is something they will not tolerate or accept under any circumstances whatsoever.<br> </div>
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<br>They are welcome to not tolerate it. The system is alerady designed for that. Don't tolerate people talking about evolution? Homeschool your kids. Don't tolerate a school system that allows black teacher to teach? Homeschool your kids.<br><br>Done and done.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> In order to further their beliefs and "protect" (in their minds) their kids, many parents will spend small fortunes to send their kids to private religious schools to shield them from the idea that tolerance for gays and gay marriage is ok. <br> </div>
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<br>Yup. The system works. As you can see, these issues exist today on a variety of factors that the country accepts and religious bigots dislike. Their views are tolerated, and it is accepted that their children can be taught by thte parents to believe what they want. However, separation of church and state means that when it comes to state run schools that religion plays no part in it. If Foo religion hates gays, too fuckind bad. If Bar religion hates evolution, too fucking bad. If Baz religion hates women, too fucking bad.<br><br>Do we kowtow to religious extremists who don't think that our schools should teach women and treat them equally to men? Of course not. It's utterly absurd. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>They consider homosexuality to be an affront to their religious beliefs, <br> </div>
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<br>They are welcome to. Nothing is stopping that.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>and they believe it is an infringement upon those beliefs for the state to demand tolerance for homosexuals,<br> </div>
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<br>They have no right for their beliefs to not be infringed when it comes to:<br>a) greater state interests<br>b) separation of church and state<br><br>I'm sure that there are many who believe their beliefs are being infringed upon when the state teaches about evolution. Too fucking bad. Your backward religious beliefs end at your church, your home, and your mind. They're all welcome there and will not be infringed. But the rest of us are free *from* your religion. You want to impose it on the rest of us and you fuck right off.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> or that they teach their kids tolerance for homsexuality or gay marriage. I'm not saying that is happening everywhere, though in some locales it is (Tango makes Three), but it is what they fear will ultimately happen.<br> </div>
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<br>It is not the responsibility of society to subject and subjugate itself to the fears of the religious. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> This is one of the motivations for sending their kid to a private religious school. This isn't necessarily the primary motivation, but it is a motivation nonetheless. In their mind they are protecting themselves and their families religious beliefs from infringement by the state through forced indoctrination of tolerance for homosexuality and gay marriage.<br> </div>
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<br>And they are welcome to.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Hold that thought for a moment.<br> </div>
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<br>I am holding...<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Our society is slowly, but surely moving towards further tolerance for homosexuality, up to the point in some locales of granting them full protection under the law as a protected class; thus granting them full and equal rights and equal status as other married couples. As a result, some locales have also opted to begin incorporating the concept of tolerance and acceptance of homosexuality and gay marriage (Tango Makes Three) into the public school curriculum, and are teaching kids that there is nothing wrong with homosexuality, and that a belief otherwise is wrong, intolerant, and cruel to others. Effectively a campaign to teach tolerance and acceptance of homosexuality among school kids. <br> </div>
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<br>Yup. Where have we seen this before. Oh right... this happened when we moved toward treating women equally to men, and toward treating blacks equally to whites. <br><br>Society believes in tolerance, and believes that teaching children that is a good thing. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Now let's merge the two where I'm saying I think religious people want to know precedent won't go too far in the direction of limiting religious freedom, in the interests of "protecting" others.<br> </div>
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<br>What the? <br><br>Those religious people will just have to suck it the fuck up. Want to send your child to *public school*? Well, guess what, we have separation of church and state here. So if you want to benefit from the state, then you're going to have to put your church beliefs on the back burner. If you want your church beliefs to take precedence, then you take your children out of *public school*.<br><br>This happened in the past with the equal rights movements for women and blacks. I fail to see why religious types would suddenly find it so much different now that it's with gays.<br><br>Sure, they'll bitch and moan, and protest and whine and do all the same stuff they did in the past. But so what? Did we bend to them and decide 'you know what... teaching tolerance between blacks and whites limits the religious freedoms of some people. ergo we won't do it'. No, of course not. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Let's say hypothetically, a state government passes a law that states that all school children in the state, regardless of age or school, <br> </div>
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<br>Let's say hypothetically, that you're full of it. When has the state *ever* done this before? <br><br>You're worried about the precedent set and you're using hypotheticals that have no basis in reality? <br><br>If we allow that, then we have to be worried about the precedent set by *anything*. OMG, we're pushing for universal healthcare. Now let's say, hypothetically of course, that the government then starts killing all people over the age of 50 so that they can afford this, and also starts sterilizing black people. Now can you see the bad precedent that universal healthcare sets? can you not see why i would be worried about universal healthcare!?!<br><br>What sort of ridiculous nonsense is this? <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>will be required to have a course on a topic of tolerance for homosexuals, and part of that curriculum requires critical review of material such as the book "Tango makes Three." The state, in this scenario, insists that this curriculum is justifiable and in the interests of the greater good, and responds to objections to it by simply insisting that the objections are intolerant of others or hate speech, and thus unworthy of consideration. <br> </div>
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<br>I reject, wholeheartedly, your hypothetical. When has the state ever passed a law like this that applied to al l children, regardless of age or *school*?<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Under that scenario, the religious beliefs of parents will most definitely be infringed by the state, in order to push the ideology of tolerance on kids whose parents want precisely the opposite ideology taught. This is actually happening in some public schools right now,<br> </div>
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<br>Yes. The key word being *public*. We already have the precedent here. Your religious beliefs do not get to impinge on the school. Hence the whole freedom of religion thing.<br><br>How would you like it if your school system were suddenly at the beck and call of islamic beliefs? What about the beliefs of wiccans? You already expect that the school will not subject your children to those beliefs, so why can't you accept that you cannot subject the school and all its students to your christian beliefs?<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> and parents whose religious beliefs disagree with tolerance for homsexuality and/or oppose gay marriage on religious grounds, are effectively having their religious beliefs infringed upon <br> </div>
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<br>Of course. SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE.<br><br>Repeat that 1000 times and then come back.<br><br>When you go to *public* school you do not have the right to not have your religious beliefs infringed upon. If your religious beliefs tell you math is a sin. Too fucking bad, your kids are learning math in school. If your religious beliefs tell you evolution is a lie. Too fucking bad, your kids are learning about evolution in school. <br><br>You don't like it? Stop going to the state to get an education for your child.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> if they can't afford an alternative to public school. After all, the state does require kids attend school, so the option to remove kids altogether is not on the table. <br> </div>
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<br>The precedent is already here for what you describe. Gay marriage is irrelevant in the discussion. Religious parents *already* have to decide if they want to leech off of society's willingness to teach their children, or if they want to have full control over waht is taught. Gay marriage/homosexual-tolerance does not change that core issue at *all*.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Summary:<br>I'm not getting into the morality of one viewpoint or another, I'm just trying to offer a sterilized view of where both sides, in their minds, have legitimate arguments. <br> </div>
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<br>You have provided *nothing* legitimate for the religious side. In order ot defend that POV you had to create a hypothetical with no basis in reality. <br><br>if that's allowed, then you can legitimize *any* argument.<br><br>here, i'll start:<br><br>I believe that all blacks should be killed. Why? Well, hypothetically, there could be a black uprising in the future where they kill everyone else (esp. now that Obama is in the blackhouse). Sure, it's a hypothetical. But it definitely legitimizes my belief that we should strike first, lest we all be slaughtered.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>In this scenario, is it justifiable for the state to override the wishes of the parent and infringe upon their religious beliefs, for whatever justification the state deems appropriate?<br> </div>
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<br>Of course. It's *PUBLIC SCHOOL*.<br><br>Where do these religious people get the idea that their religious beliefs are sacrosanct and override the rest of society? If your religious beliefs tell you you can murder, wel too fucking bad. They're going ot get infringed by the state. "is it justifiable for the state to override the wishes of the parent and infringe upon their religious beliefs...?" Of course it fucking is. <br><br>Same with PUBLIC SCHOOL. Public school is supposed to be a tool of the state. And the state is supposed to be separated from the church. Ergo, public school is supposed to be secular. And if you want to partake in it, then you're going ot have to deal with the idea that secularity overrides your religious desires. Don't like it? Then go teach your kids on your own? But if you want to benefit form the state (including subsidized education), then you dont' get to then turn around and say 'oh, but it can't be secular' <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>This is the "precedent" that <b>could</b> be set that I was trying to infer earlier. This type of precedent, in my mind, is the shaky line on which I'm torn on how far to cross.<br> </div>
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<br>To be honest, i've got to say that your reasoning here is pretty disgusting SS. I appreciate that you are willing to talk about it, but i am amzed by the mental contortions you go through to defend this sort of thing.<br><br>It seems like bigots (not you, but the people you're referring to), want to be able to have their cake and eat it too. They want to benefit from state subsidized education. But they also want to tear down the walls of that separate the church and the state.<br><br>Of course, if they were to see any other religions trying that (say muslims insisting that all females in school wear a chador), they would raise holy hell about religious extremism infringing on their beliefs. THey are the worst sort of hypocrit. They will gladly take whatever benefits they can from a system, will scream to holy hell about any sort of affront to their own religion, and will then turn around and try to impose their religious beliefs on everyone else.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> It's what I was suggesting I struggle with in terms of deciding where I fall.<br> </div>
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<br>How can you struggle? It is very simple:<br><br>We have rules about child endangerment. You believe that they are correct, right? i.e. if a non-religious adult abused their child, you would want it ot be stopped by the state, right? So why does that change if they are religious? Why is child endangerment suddenly ok in that case?<br><br>Is child murder suddenly ok if your religion tells you so? What about child rape? What about child torture? DO you believe that any of these child abuses suddenly become ok because someone can say that their god allowed it? No? Then why do you accept it elsewhere?<br><br>And your tie in to christians+homosexuality is utterly specious as well. Again, we have the precedent already established that your religious beliefs do not get to interfere with the state's education in *state schooling*. We have separation of church and state for that reason. Want church education? Send them to church school. Want state education? Then accept that state beliefs will conflict with your own. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> And in practical terms, this type of change is precisely why the religious right goes to extreme lengths to fight this particular effort,<br> </div>
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<br>Because they are illogical, and blind to the precedent of the past? Yes.<br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>No they are not. There is precisely *zero* legitimacy to this. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br> terrified they are going to lose this fight, and that their personal religious beliefs will be infringed through state indoctrination of their kids.<br> </div>
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<br>Tough shit. That's the state *today*. That's why there is *zero* legitimacy here. Their religious beliefs are already infringed upon. Don't believe in evolution, but want to send your kid to public school? Too fucking bad, they're going to learn about evolution. <br><br>Homosexuality is just hte latest thing they can latch on to in the hope that they can impose *their* religious beliefs on a secular school system. <br><blockquote class="ip-ubbcode-quote">
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<br>Discuss, and hopefully this finally puts a functional understanding on what I piss poorly tried to convey earlier.<br><br>-SS </div>
</blockquote>All it has done is *solidify* the arguments for why your POV here is wrong.<br><br>You had precedent reversed for the child-endangerment argument. And you have precedent reversed for the separation of church and state argument.<br><br>Again, to make this totally clear. Precedent shows us:<br>a) religious laws do not trump state laws.<br>b) religious beliefs do not dictate secular education.<br><br>This is the precedent we *already* have (and have had for hundreds of years). If religious people can't grasp these fundamental concepts, then they have no one to blame but themselves. These are concepts the country was founded upon and which it has repeatedly defended against the efforts of religious extremists. How can you be worried about precedent when the precedent was established ages ago.<br><br>You should be worried about the bad precedent set by:<br>a) allowing religious people to override state laws with religious laws<br>b) allowing religious people to dictate what can/can't be taught in public school*<br><br>---<br><br>* Again, ask yourself this: would you approve of another religion coming in and saying that it's unacceptable for the state to teach the concepts of tolerance toward the sexes and races? Would you be upset at the precedent shown by telling those extremists to fuck right off? If not, then why are you struggling with the issue of acting the same way toward christian extremists?