Haven't read the thread yet.
I just got to New Atlantis for the first time, barely into the story I guess, but this is so far my favourite Bethesda RPG. I started with Oblivion on the 360 many, many years ago, and have tried most of the Elder Scrolls games, plus Fallout 3 and 4, and I don't know, none of them really hooked me in. Fallout was great, but I just kind of lost interest after a while. Both Oblivion and Skyrim, I bounce hard off every 2-3 years that I try them again, but something about Starfield really has me hooked. I don't know anything about Skyrim beyond the first attack of the dragon way in the beginning despite owning it on like 3 platforms. lol.
I guess the scifi setting? It feels like a totally different genre of game, but with RPG elements. Which I guess is my favourite type of RPG game (other than hack and slash dungeon crawlers like Diablo). These RPGlite things which are a different genre, but have upgrading your build, weapon loadout, character skills and abilities as a core mechanic. Less of a focus on character stats, more on skills/abilities. Another series I really like is Assassin's Creed (playing through Valhalla, have Origins on standby which I will return to after spending a few dozen hours on it). Those are like action-platformers with RPG elements, and Starfield so far feels like an FPS with RPG elements. They seem like pretty similar franchises, the focus is more on upgrading weaponry and skills as opposed to assigning points.
TES games are more traditional RPG games, I guess, and Fallout is more on the skill points side of things which is why I didn't really enjoy them.