Maybe I’m a little raw from an incident earlier this evening*, but my take is that we all collectively share the blame to a degree. Even those of us who did everything legal in their power to stop Trumps return to power deserve a little bit of it. That is because we (and I am very much including myself in this) didn’t do everything possible, only what was legal or that which we felt comfortable doing. Folks that literally voted for this, and continue to support it, lie/deflect/dissemble to misrepresent what he is doing, etc. - they of course deserve much more of the blame, but not all.This post represents the fundamental disconnect that is at the heart of this thread. It's a mistake to think that the people that put Japanese Americans in concentration camps are the same people that were subsequently embarrassed that happened. American are not and never were monolithic. Those that want human rights to exist have always been at odds with those who only care for themselves or some narrowly-scoped community, and there's a lot of people that vaguely think they should be in favor of decency but are easily persuaded otherwise.
Their relative numbers vary over time, and it's not a monotonic progression from self-interest to commitment to humane values. Looked at from a very long lens, you can convince yourself there's been some progress, but the setbacks have been pretty obvious.
Is being in the same country as selfish people the same thing as being a selfish person? How much blame can you heap on people who know their actions are going to be ineffective because so many of their countrymen cannot be depended on to act humanely, or even in their own rational interst?
We know the system is rigged. We’ve know how it is rigged for years now. And YET, we’ve continued to let the fly-wheel spin because it is convenient. Because we have so much to lose from rocking the boat, we did what we felt comfortable with, and let the system keep chewing people up, and granting power to those least qualified to hold it.
I work in an industry based in Trump country, populated disproportionately with Trumpists, and I’ve been mostly quiet. Sure, I’ve had 1-on-1 conversations with folks. Pushed back to some small degree when I thought it wouldn’t cost me anything. In my personal life I’ve donated to campaigns, advocated online and in person, donated to charities and food pantries. But, I’ve also used my skills and intellect to enrich my colleagues, who are pretty fucking awful human beings outside of the office*. I knew they were dog shit, but kept quiet about it, because I knew it could cost me something I was unwilling to pay.
I held back because I was in a trap of my own construction. We don’t get to absolve ourselves because we didn’t want it to happen. Because we, ultimately, allowed it to happen on our watch.
*(work colleague 1 denied covid was real; colleague 2 flat out stated that they didn’t care about deaths in 3rd world countries and that the 9/11 survivors deserved nothing because everyone should have had life insurance. I promptly told them to fuck off and stormed out. I might not have a job in the morning. We will see)
