Does this smartphone make me look stupid? Meet the "ladyphones"

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Many phones "made for women" simply insult us with their case color, dismal hardware, and embarrassing accessories. Designers, you can (and should) do better.

<a href='http://meincmagazine.com/gadgets/news/2012/03/does-this-smartphone-make-me-look-stupid-meet-the-ladyphones.ars'>Read the whole story</a>
 

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I was with Casey up until the Dior phone made an appearance. These types of luxury phones exist for a specific market, and are unisex. A friend of mine is a hotel manager in China and was recently given one as a signing bonus, its price range runs from $5k-20k depending on if you want it in steel or gold, and what gems you want encrusted( http://us.vertu.com/showroom/constellation/ ). These phones are not sold on any of the specs gadget geeks lust after, they are sold on exlusivity and prestiege. The people who carry these do not care about memory, single core or multi core, what they care about is that they are the only person in a room with one, and that the extra services sold with them function as expected(the Verte I linked comes with a 24/7 global coicerge).

Features like 4G are meaningless as these are for globetrotters. The specs don't mean much either, most run customized versions of Symbian and have special services available to go with them. The matching accessories for even basic items like Bluetooth headsets run hundreds of dollars and those who own them don't even blink at those prices.

These phones are not inherently sexist and those who carry them don't even blink at those prices. They also do not give a damn about app stores or any of the other things that matter to you and I, they have people and services that perform those functions for them, at will(who cares about having local scout or another services when you have 24/7 one button corcerge on call?).

I also found the complaint about the Mango phone to be a bit silly. Pretty much all WP7 devices were introduced high and dropped within a matter of months if not immediatly. My HTC Trophy cost $149(on contract) at launch, and in the second month I got credit for the balance above $69 as they had cut that price inside of 30 days.

I also took issue with the idea that reduced functionality was inherently patronizing. Have you ever considered that these phones are being marketed at the less technical rather than targetting females specifically? Yes some of them target both, but the point is that those who are less technical(or simply have no interest in tech) are a huge market, and thats why reduced functionality phones, whether they are 'pink' or designer labeled and marketed to women, or huge buttons/low res big screen targetted at the elderly, the point is that significant numbers of certain populations are not as technical and as a result not spec obsessed. The last time I saw numbers, only 10% of the population had smartphones at all, and chcances are very high that those who do tend to be the ones who care about specs. For the rest, something that gets the job done without being embarassing looking is more desireable.

As for Apple, I think they walk a very fine line. One certainly can claim that the iPhone is both fully functional and stylish, and I think it has reached that point now, but upon launch back in 2007 they were status symbols who's functionality did not come close to matching the incumbants. Despite that, people who were fashion conscious latched on to them.

Disclaimer: I generally agree with the gist of this article. My gf hates that Major League Baseball thinks its appropriate to market to her a shirt that says "Talent Scout" or "Fangirl" (she has her eye on a great one that has the 'girl' crossed out). It is demeaning that the idea would be that she would only watch a game because of the 'cute guys' on the field. And there are certainly examples in tech of this phenomenon as well. I just did not find most of the phones mentioned here to be very convincing examples...
 
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ahugeblunt":2581441c said:
While I think women might be more exploitable by advertising
Uh, say what? What is this statement based on???

(see for example how female suffrage basically created a huge welfare system)
What. The. Fuck.

No, seriously. What. The. Fuck.

it would be wrong to insinuate that makes them inferior, as superslav is arguing, only different. Men and women are built for different spheres that are equally important.
Um, did you even read your first two lines? You are insinuating that women are inferior in 'spheres' that you do not believe they are built for. Is it here that I point out that historically most of the 'spheres' that make up today's world didn't even f'ing exist back when humans were evolving? Seriously, who evolved to be a 'scientist' or 'mathametician'???
 
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ahugeblunt":3guou1uw said:
Most hunters are men correct?
Depends on the society and species. Most in terms of overall numbers? Sure. Most as a predicator of success? Not really. Matriachial societies have and do exist where women take leadership roles including hunting. Without any noticable drawbacks. Outside of homo sapiens sapiens, lots of species have females as the primary hunters(lions are an example). There is no evidence that I am aware of that males are inherently or genetically better hunters.

Men are more likely to be autistic than women, correct? Did you know that autism has important implications in hunter-gatherer societies like the ones we lived in? Here is an excerpt from ScienceDaily:

"The paper looks at how autism's strengths may have played a role in evolution. Individuals on the autism spectrum would have had the mental tools to be self-sufficient foragers in environments marked by diminished social contact, Reser said.

The penchant for obsessive, repetitive activities would have been focused by hunger and thirst towards the learning and refinement of hunting and gathering skills."
Source: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20 ... 122849.htm
You do know that science is not based on a single non-corroborated research paper to draw sweeping conclusions, right? While its within the realm of possibility that he is correct in some aspects, it is likely that he is wrong about several others and most importantly the reasonings and implications are likely far off base as early research typically is. And I'm *certain* that if you read the source paper he will have called this out himself as responsible researchers typically do.

PC "cultural" marxism may be seductive but it has no grounding in reality at all.
Your personal political biases have nothing to do with this discussion.
 
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superslav223":2rux0q80 said:
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Chimps have culture just like humans do. When a baby chimp is born, the family checks the gender and treats it differently based on the result. It varies between different chimp groups as to what the exact distinctions are.

What do you say about boys who feel female at a young age and want to do female things? Is that the result of genetics or conditioning? If a 2 year old rejects social conditioning and wants to play with dolls, is that genetics ..... or what exactly at work?

You see this is the whole problem facing the blank slate / poltically correct outlook. They seem to accept that males can be born with strong female tendancies but not females. It's an irrational position resulting from an erronuous assumption which is that general boy and female girl behaviors have been created by society.

I on the other hand can accept that most girls will prefer dolls over killing ants and if a girl wants to kill ants and not wear pink then I can accept that as well. That's the truly tolerant position, not wishfully thinking that girls are blank slates (unless of course they reject conditioning and act like boys).
The politically correct position is to conform to whatever is popular in society, as will gain the most political capital. In other words, since our society predisposes boys to play with trucks, it is most politically correct to support the idea that this is the natural state, never mind the fact that trucks would have zero genetic encoding as they are less than 100 years old.

The politically incorrect position, ie: the one with the least political capital, is to question those assumptions, and attempt to draw distinctions between what is cultural and what is genetic. This is challenging politically since it calls into question the culture that we have, as a society, chosen to create. This is the more courageous position to be in as it can run against the mob mentality that tends to pervade large groups.

Ultimatly though, the real problem is that once you start crossing cultures you realize that many of the things considered "duh" in one are not "duh" in another. Certainly not once you cross species. Furthermore, just because something seems 'logical' in your mind does not mean it is supported by evidence, common sense is famously not common at all, and usually a code word for confirmation and selection bias.
 
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Matriachial societies have and do exist where women take leadership roles including hunting.

[Citation needed] for that last part.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matriarchy
Like most concepts, its not pure black and white, and depends on how one wishes to define patriarchy, matriarchy and 'society'.


There is no evidence that I am aware of that males are inherently or genetically better hunters.

You're kidding right? Men are physically stronger and faster. For biological reasons.
Both male and female humans are sufficiently strong and fast enough to kill their prey. Evolution only requires that much. Nothing about it requires 'optimal' or 'maximal' in any attribute. Just enough to survive and procreate.
 
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superslav223":3adrypra said:
I think you made some insightful comments but I have a hard time believing that Roman boy preference for toy chariots had zero genetic basis. Were they hard wired for chariots specifically? No but boys likely have a preference for anything that represents power or force over a toy that is used to mimic child rearing.
In order to disprove my point you would need to demonstrate a couple things:

1) That in Roman society males preffered chariots and females preffered something viewed as 'femine' to children today.

2) That again this was not a cultural rather than genetic difference. So far as I am aware, vehicles of any sort have not existed long enough to have any sort of genetic encoding.

I have to wonder how many politically correct types have actually spent time around children. They naturally make a joke of political correctness and blank slate. I know a kid who was raised around books and not sports or TV and yet he still chose to make paper balls and kick them instead of reading. Where did that desire come from? Thin air? Why did he do it for hours? There is far more to boys and girls than how they are raised. This will be accepted in the future when humans genes are fully mapped out. Until then we will have to deal with the church of political correctness and their desperate attempts to enforce belief in blank slate. If you want to believe in blank slate then don't have any children.
That you are not capable of detecting cultural influences on children speaks to your own observations rather than scientific evidence. There is mountains of actual data demonstrating that a large portion, if not the overwhelming majority of such preferences are cultural rather than biological. Your personal observations of children in non-controlled environments aside.
 
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superslav223":2e1enwai said:
I didn't comment on pink berries specifically, I just don't think one should be dismissive of the possibility of color preference having a genetic component. So maybe you should have read the thread more carefully instead of getting emotional.
Nobody is dismissing the idea that there may be genetic basis for color preferences. What they are doing, however, is requesting peer reviewed evidence of such before making decisions along such lines.

Which is the reasonable, logical and unemotional approach to an assertion.

Oh and I would love an explanation from the "guardians of science" (as the politically correct crowd sees themselves even though they reject critical thinking)
As pointed out previously, to you no less, the 'politically correct' position would be to affirm the popular opinion as that builds political capital. Since those who think scientifically tend to reject assumptions and instead question common belief, they are rarely in the position of being 'politically correct'. Furthermore, the very basis of such lines of questioning are inherently what is considered to be 'rational thought' as they require evidence and review before jumping to conclusions.

on why these male monkeys prefer to play with trucks over dolls:
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn1 ... -toys.html
Another already deconstructed this.

And this is the color preference study he was referring to:
http://www.time.com/time/health/article ... 71,00.html

It's an interesting theory, and one put forth by female researchers. I'm sure they were brainwashed by marketers or something.
The gender of the researchers is irrelevant, only the quality of the work is relevant. However, again, pointing to a single study is meaningless and those who worked on it would tell you that themselves. What is required is a body of evidence, and that is something you have failed to provide for the assertions you are choosing to make.
 
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At least they're not as blatant as this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3iuG1OpnHP8

I'm so glad they got smacked down for that. I think I saw those things in the store for about... a week?

To anyone who thinks women's "pink preference" comes down to genetics, you should take a trip to Japan, or anywhere in East Asia. It would do your heart good to see all the pink clothes and accessories being sported by men. It really is startling the first time you hop on a train. You just can't help but notice the difference if you've been raised in the US. It is most definitely a social thing, not genetic.

Perhaps attraction to color is based off testosterone/estrogen ratios? East Asian men are fairly feminine/hairless, so it wouldn't surprise me that they would see pink with no problems.
Wow, racist as well. Nice.

I am not aware of any evidence that Asian men have levels of testosterone any lesser than men of other races. Also, what you consider to be masculine and feminine is a function of your culture, not something inherent. Nobody questions the manliness of Scots, Irish and Roman Centurians, and yet they are known to wear and have worn brightly colored skirts, after all.
 
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ahugeblunt":1v2yx6oh said:
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At least they're not as blatant as this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3iuG1OpnHP8

I'm so glad they got smacked down for that. I think I saw those things in the store for about... a week?

To anyone who thinks women's "pink preference" comes down to genetics, you should take a trip to Japan, or anywhere in East Asia. It would do your heart good to see all the pink clothes and accessories being sported by men. It really is startling the first time you hop on a train. You just can't help but notice the difference if you've been raised in the US. It is most definitely a social thing, not genetic.

Perhaps attraction to color is based off testosterone/estrogen ratios? East Asian men are fairly feminine/hairless, so it wouldn't surprise me that they would wear pink.
Just to be absolutely clear that my racist charge was not a Godwin: The first link I found to the theory that testosterone is corrolated to race was 'stormfront.org' which is the online home of the Ku Klux Klan and Aryan Nations. They assert that black men have the most testosterone and asian men the least, and base that assertion on superficial observations of masculinity.

Promoting this 'theory' is racist ideology. It has been debunked multiple times, and here is one such example: http://jcem.endojournals.org/content/92/7/2519.full
 
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Ok, then tell me this, why are there so many blacks and whites in the NBA but only 1 Asian-American? Again, your PC blinders pretty much prevent you from seeing it how it is under the guise of equality. All ethnic groups are uniquely gifted in their own ways, isn't that what you people call diversity?
WTF? Seriously? YOu don't think that has anything to do with the fact that, oh, I don't know, the average asian is shorter than the average white or black person and height has a lot to do with success in basketball? Or how about the fact that professional basketball has a 70 year tradition in the US, while in most of Asia its only been well known since the late 90's and it takes time to groom superstars?

Geez, you truly do not understand cultural impact at all.
 
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Yet sports that Asians are good at have not been introduced to their native countries for long either. Badminton and Table Tennis are both sports that are essentially feminine in nature-- there is no contact and it requires more flexibility than say football or basketball. And Asian men excel naturally at these sports.

You have got to be kidding. Feminine? The ball is nailed at very high speeds in table tennis.

Asians play the game a lot more than Westerners. No shit they're better at it.
Not only that, but Table Tennis is a great example of my point. The NBA has existed and held championships since 1950. Table Tennis as a competitive sport with continental champions has existed in Asia sine 1952. Yes, sports that are widely popular with long running leagues and championships tend to produce a lot of good players. Sports that are relatively new or not very popular in a region tend not to produce a lot of high level international players from that region.

You know, like how the US has produced very few international soccer stars compared to the rest of the world. Or maybe US men simply aren't masculine enough for soccer.
 
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knbgnu":26otd6cl said:
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As pointed out previously, to you no less, the 'politically correct' position would be to affirm the popular opinion as that builds political capital. Since those who think scientifically tend to reject assumptions and instead question common belief, they are rarely in the position of being 'politically correct'. Furthermore, the very basis of such lines of questioning are inherently what is considered to be 'rational thought' as they require evidence and review before jumping to conclusions.
What is 'politically correct' is usually defined by what is the least offensive, so it would be more accurately said it is what would lose the least political capital, which can easily differ from what the popular opinion is. Claiming that biological differences exist between different groups of people is often politically incorrect, because we tend to see being different implying superiority or inferiority.
The majority of the population believes males and females are inherently different, thus it is most politically correct to affirm this cultural norm. One gains no political capital by opposing the cultural norm, indeed one loses political capital.
 
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ahugeblunt":3piddi7d said:
robrob":3piddi7d said:
ahugeblunt":3piddi7d said:
reflex-croft":3piddi7d said:
ahugeblunt":3piddi7d said:
Geobits":3piddi7d said:
At least they're not as blatant as this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3iuG1OpnHP8

I'm so glad they got smacked down for that. I think I saw those things in the store for about... a week?

To anyone who thinks women's "pink preference" comes down to genetics, you should take a trip to Japan, or anywhere in East Asia. It would do your heart good to see all the pink clothes and accessories being sported by men. It really is startling the first time you hop on a train. You just can't help but notice the difference if you've been raised in the US. It is most definitely a social thing, not genetic.

Perhaps attraction to color is based off testosterone/estrogen ratios? East Asian men are fairly feminine/hairless, so it wouldn't surprise me that they would see pink with no problems.
Wow, racist as well. Nice.

I am not aware of any evidence that Asian men have levels of testosterone any lesser than men of other races. Also, what you consider to be masculine and feminine is a function of your culture, not something inherent. Nobody questions the manliness of Scots, Irish and Roman Centurians, and yet they are known to wear and have worn brightly colored skirts, after all.

Ok, then tell me this, why are there so many blacks and whites in the NBA but only 1 Asian-American? Again, your PC blinders pretty much prevent you from seeing it how it is under the guise of equality. All ethnic groups are uniquely gifted in their own ways, isn't that what you people call diversity?

Just like how Americans suck at soccer thanks to several hundred years worth of evolutionary change in the British due to their diet high in fish and chips?

And personally I think (as an Australian living in Canada), Americans are unable to play cricket because they can't handle their booze and are basically a load of fat pansy men. Obesity rates are high and we all know Australian's are known for their beer, so it's the logical answer. Learn how to man up and you'll be winning at cricket in no time.

This is disingenuous. While there are few American soccer players, most soccer players are white. There are only 3 main racial groups: whites, Asians, and Africans. Each group has their own corresponding traits that are beneficial and harmful. So while individual white Americans may make poor dietary choices white people on the whole excel at sports.

If you can imagine what Mass Effect 3 multiplayer is like, each race can be any class but some races are better suited to particular roles, then you pretty much have a good grasp on human biodiversity.
The theory you are reffering to is based on "The Natural Varieties of Mankind" by Johann Bluembach. You forgot the Malaysian Race and Native American Race that he also identified. However during the course of his own research he discredited his own theory when he found that there was more variation among members of a given 'race' than there was between the races themselves. He found no evidence of any 'racial' basis for given 'traits' commonly attributed to them, however unfortunatly scientific racism was often based on his work, ignoring the inconvenient parts.

While long ago discredited, the concept of inherent traits in races has persisted among racial identity and supremecy organizations, despite genetics and studies definitively disproving this line of work long ago.
 
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Linkdead":1mqmc1hd said:
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2) That again this was not a cultural rather than genetic difference. So far as I am aware, vehicles of any sort have not existed long enough to have any sort of genetic encoding.

It's the use the toys have that hold genetics .

Boys would pick up something related to violence and play with it. Be it a chariot or whatever is available that will relate to fighting.
Do you even realize what it means to assign a meaning to something after the fact? Its confirmation bias, you have decided that boys are into violence and thus you assign that value to the logic of why they would pick up such toys.

Personally speaking I built car lots and race tracks with my Matchbox toys. GI Joes were what I used for enacting battles.
 
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Linkdead":3e2n2ad6 said:
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I think you'll find that women and men are different psychologically, and not just physiologically. Saying the only difference between the sexes are the genitals (OK, and tits) is to completely misunderstand how biology works. I know that blank slaters disagree (see above), but I firmly believe they are wrong. :)

Oh, and not to be misunderstood: I am all against condescending and belittling and any other kind of discrimination of anyone based on anything - including women and pink underpowered gadgets. My argument is that a) there is clearly a market for this (cf. my wife and possibly also Nintendo + the whole of Japanese market, for that matter), and b) there may very well be valid reasons and areas where man-kit should be different from women-kit in order to maximise both profit and customer satisfaction. And I'm *not* talking underwear or tampons here! ;)

I could have written that :) well said .
The problem with his assertion, however, is that he has identified cultural rather than genetic differences. Yes, a lot of women love pink, and a lot of other 'girly' things, but there is little evidence that these things have anything to do with the genetics of women, and a lot of evidence they have to do with the culture we have created. And that is the problem.
 
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thirdfaceofjanus":coe3x9qq said:
ahugeblunt":coe3x9qq said:
reflex-croft":coe3x9qq said:
ahugeblunt":coe3x9qq said:
While I think women might be more exploitable by advertising
Uh, say what? What is this statement based on???

(see for example how female suffrage basically created a huge welfare system)
What. The. Fuck.

No, seriously. What. The. Fuck.

it would be wrong to insinuate that makes them inferior, as superslav is arguing, only different. Men and women are built for different spheres that are equally important.
Um, did you even read your first two lines? You are insinuating that women are inferior in 'spheres' that you do not believe they are built for. Is it here that I point out that historically most of the 'spheres' that make up today's world didn't even f'ing exist back when humans were evolving? Seriously, who evolved to be a 'scientist' or 'mathametician'???

Most hunters are men correct? Men are more likely to be autistic than women, correct? Did you know that autism has important implications in hunter-gatherer societies like the ones we lived in? Here is an excerpt from ScienceDaily:

"The paper looks at how autism's strengths may have played a role in evolution. Individuals on the autism spectrum would have had the mental tools to be self-sufficient foragers in environments marked by diminished social contact, Reser said.

The penchant for obsessive, repetitive activities would have been focused by hunger and thirst towards the learning and refinement of hunting and gathering skills."
Source: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20 ... 122849.htm
PC "cultural" marxism may be seductive but it has no grounding in reality at all.

Hi. Autistic woman here.

Hi. Another woman who's favorite color for clothing is black, is totally averse to pink and frilly, also uses a messenger bag, also uses no makeup, also never wears heels, and who's preferred decor is lots of gun-metal gray steel.

Owate. Lemme freakout ahugeblunt (your handle says a lot about your level of intelligence, btw - which head of yours is talking now?) and superslav223 and state that I'm a womyn.
Stop destroying thier ability to generalize! ;)
 
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Operative Alex":3lhurumg said:
reflex-croft":3lhurumg said:
thirdfaceofjanus":3lhurumg said:
Hi. Autistic woman here.

Hi. Another woman who's favorite color for clothing is black, is totally averse to pink and frilly, also uses a messenger bag, also uses no makeup, also never wears heels, and who's preferred decor is lots of gun-metal gray steel.

Owate. Lemme freakout ahugeblunt (your handle says a lot about your level of intelligence, btw - which head of yours is talking now?) and superslav223 and state that I'm a womyn.
Stop destroying thier ability to generalize! ;)

Let me just say: I'm partially against some of what Casey wrote. I think that in some ways, it's over-simple to just say "bad companies, don't make crappy phones for women!". As others have said, there is some truth to the idea that there IS a market for them. Why should they cost the same? Because it's what the market will bear. In some ways, this isn't a bad thing: free will for both the customers AND the consumers, essentially. It's too simple to say "stop"...because then that's a market segment whose desires are not being met. However, on the flip side, you have years of societal and cultural norms that reinforce this purchase, and companies intentionally targeting that same behavior, in a way that can be considered repugnant and manipulative OR simply common sense from a business perspective. So I think Casey might have stopped short of weighing why these companies are able to do this.

Yet, in spite of all this, there's a nasty habit on posts with Casey for there to be a great number of people who have...shall we say, opinions not supported by sound logic. I hesitate, as always, to switch from "attack the idea" to "attack the speaker", and people who make sweeping generalizations on how the "others" developed, going so far as to suggest it's okay to make decisions based on stereotypes because there's a reason the stereotype exists...well, those people come close to making me want to attack the individuals on a personal level. What I've seen, however is a community of people perfectly willing to attack the foolishness of the ideas, to meet poor logic with more sound logic, and, by and large, avoid name-calling and pedantry.

So, thanks to those of you who- regardless of your opinion- keep themselves away from insults. It makes it easier for me to do the same. I myself have mixed feelings on this report. I have no such conflict when it comes to those who blatantly hold views that are demonstrably false, and use flimsy pretexts to make sweeping generalizations. Thankfully, Ars has enough good people in it that I think those who might give the community a bad name are shouted down.

So...again, complex issues were raised here (which, hey, kudos to Casey for). Some of the commenters, though, need some serious time re-considering their position, in light of both the scientific imperatives raised in the nurture/nature debate, or in the far more anthropological consideration of why we're using cultural norms to define why prejudice is justifiable today. Regardless of what the culture was in China in the 1600's or what Rome was in the time of Ceasar, I'd like to think we could, perhaps, consider aspiring to more than our ancestors? Just a thought.
I already dissented with the article several pages ago, but that got ignored in favor of a bunch of sexist and racist garbage. I think the article was somewhat poorly researched and several of the phones are not examples of Casey's problem(especially the WP7 and Dior device). But nobody wants to discuss that, or come up with better examples.

Ah well..
 
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ibad":2ba2z5r3 said:
While I overall disagree with Telekenesis's post (the one drawing so many responses) and I think it to be very wrong-headed, there is a grain of truth in one thing he implied: Lots of women do enthusiastically participate in their own objectification, and teach their daughters very bad ideas of what makes a woman valuable or powerful, or how a woman should see herself or behave.

These women ruin it for the rest, and create an atmosphere that pressures other women to also participate in the whole sordid culture. Sexual and social competition complete a an undesirable race to the bottom. And of course, in the public space we are used to ultra-soft-porn images of women being used in advertizing, much more often than images of men.

I do not know exactly what can be done about this.... and I am not denying that many men play a big and negative role in the whole equation, but it seems that women in general, and feminists in particular ought to focus on women themselves before blaming everything on men or male chauvinist corporations.

Some responsibility must be taken. The opposite sex has always been, and always will be a problem in some sense. I know what women like, but that does not mean I will give in and become some sort of metro-sexual twat or change what I value in myself, or what I want to achieve, in order to conform to anything and everything women find attractive. Nor do I walk around under-dressed to attract the gaze of the opposite sex or try to make a career out of being a sex or aesthetic object. Some men do these things, but a far smaller fraction than that of women.

When most girls want to be like Ada Lovelace or Marie Curie when they grow up, instead of Paris Hilton or some bombshell actress or model, change will occur automatically.

EDIT: P.S. This is not to SAY that male chauvinism and bad behaviour are excusable or acceptable, but I am focusing on another aspect of the problem in this post.

EDIT: corrected the previous edit.
You are missing the point. A woman has the right to live however she likes, whether its as a sex object for men, a baby maker, or a strong career woman. The change that needs to come is not from women, but from males who see one type of woman and then attempt to apply that to all women. A woman is just an object of sexual gratification. Or is just devoted to a career. Or should only be in the kitchen. They must fit a male's mold in order to be 'acceptable' in society to many males. But for true equality, a male should simply accept females. Period. Not attempt to put them in roles that are part of their own worldview of what is 'acceptable' or not.

A woman can be a lawyer, an athlete, a homemaker or a porn star, and all are as equally valid as any life choice made by any male, without any assumed loss of feminimity, or assumptions about her performance and value in those roles.

BTW: Welcome any refinement to what I'm saying here, I feel like its a bit rough, hopefully some of you know how to state it better than I am.
 
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You might consider what you consider "inappropriate" was just your personal taste, you know what they say, if a guy you are attracted to hits on you, its flirting, if a guy you aren't attracted to hits on you, its sexual harassment.

No, there is a clear difference between "flirting" and "sexual harassment".
Not only that, but he is ignoring the point that there is a legal difference. I can flirt with anyone I wish at work, even a subordinate. That is NOT sexual harrassment and would NEVER get me in trouble with my employer or the law. Sexual harrassment is a very specific offense, and requires the person I am flirting with to explicitly tell me to stop. If I then continue to flirt with them, then I am sexually harrassing them and my behaviour is legally actionable.

Anyone who has been through an actual mandatory sexual harrassment training course knows this. Even McDonald's shows the videos explaining this. And I'm certain Neffer is well aware of this. But in his haste to become an oppressed male, he ignores this fact so he can prove that those evil wimmin' are taking advantage of their poor downtrodden male counterparts in the workplace!
 
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Such simplistic nonsense. You take the example of 9 out of 10 prisoners in western countries being male and ignore its implications out of hand so you can prattle on about your pet peeves and totally unrelated nonsense like genital mutilation. Sir you lost the second you had to reach that far for an argument. The fact is women aren't facing genital mutilation or not being able to vote in this country, and such things were completely irrelevant to the discussion from the start.

For the sake of logic I sincerely hope you learn to think about this without your knee jerk response of omg I can't think about things objectively because GENITAL MUTILATION!! all arguments are thus invalid because GENITAL MUTILATION is the only response!! The fact that you have to resort to such nonsense kind of says it all, you don't have an actual argument, you can only try to shut down discussion.

I mean seriously you think women in america don't become computer programmers because in egypt they mutilate their genitals? Your argument is laughable.
Nothing in your post negates the fact that women get paid less for the same jobs that men do. Nor does it negate the fact that they are promoted less often. Or that they face more harrassment in the workplace. Or that companies often attempt to do things like determine if they intend to have children before making hiring decisions. Or any of the other multitude of issues raised in this thread.

Pointing to your perception of male oppression in NO WAY changes the fact that women are at a significant disadvantage in our society in certain areas relative to thier male peers. If you feel so strongly about the areas you claim to, you have the right to also promote these things(I think you would gain a lot of sympathy for criminal justice reform, actually). But the fact that you can identify these things in no way disproves the evidence that women are oppressed and face significant hurdles that males do not.
 
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neffer":1fjjo1eh said:
reflex-croft":1fjjo1eh said:
Janne":1fjjo1eh said:
neffer":1fjjo1eh said:
You might consider what you consider "inappropriate" was just your personal taste, you know what they say, if a guy you are attracted to hits on you, its flirting, if a guy you aren't attracted to hits on you, its sexual harassment.

No, there is a clear difference between "flirting" and "sexual harassment".
Not only that, but he is ignoring the point that there is a legal difference. I can flirt with anyone I wish at work, even a subordinate. That is NOT sexual harrassment and would NEVER get me in trouble with my employer or the law. Sexual harrassment is a very specific offense, and requires the person I am flirting with to explicitly tell me to stop. If I then continue to flirt with them, then I am sexually harrassing them and my behaviour is legally actionable.

Anyone who has been through an actual mandatory sexual harrassment training course knows this. Even McDonald's shows the videos explaining this. And I'm certain Neffer is well aware of this. But in his haste to become an oppressed male, he ignores this fact so he can prove that those evil wimmin' are taking advantage of their poor downtrodden male counterparts in the workplace!

Mandatory sexual harrassment training is just another injustice against males, should yo have a mandatory pedophilia training session so you know not to touch children? the fact is is you need to treat women with kid gloves they are not going to be seen as the same. You jump in here to protect someone who slandered an entire gender pretending that at conferences there are hoards of leering nerds just waiting to pounce on her. Sorry that is just a massive chip on her shoulder she needs to deal with.
Mandatory sexual harrassment training is not a federal requirement. Companies do it to limit liability. I have also had to take mandatory training for a number of other potential liability situations. If my job included interacting with children, it would not suprise me if there was training about what is appropriate, most teachers I know actually do get such training to help avoid liability.

And yes, men do treat women this way. My gf gets honked and yelled at if she dares to walk to the store. Others I know have been told flat out that for better pricing on things ranging from auto purchases to car repairs to electronics, they could perform sexual favors. Some I know have been told directly at work that if they want a promotion they need to start sleeping with management.

As others have pointed out, just because you've put on headphones and tuned all this out does not mean it is not occuring each and every day.
 
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Such simplistic nonsense. You take the example of 9 out of 10 prisoners in western countries being male and ignore its implications out of hand so you can prattle on about your pet peeves and totally unrelated nonsense like genital mutilation. Sir you lost the second you had to reach that far for an argument. The fact is women aren't facing genital mutilation or not being able to vote in this country, and such things were completely irrelevant to the discussion from the start.

For the sake of logic I sincerely hope you learn to think about this without your knee jerk response of omg I can't think about things objectively because GENITAL MUTILATION!! all arguments are thus invalid because GENITAL MUTILATION is the only response!! The fact that you have to resort to such nonsense kind of says it all, you don't have an actual argument, you can only try to shut down discussion.

I mean seriously you think women in america don't become computer programmers because in egypt they mutilate their genitals? Your argument is laughable.
Nothing in your post negates the fact that women get paid less for the same jobs that men do. Nor does it negate the fact that they are promoted less often. Or that they face more harrassment in the workplace. Or that companies often attempt to do things like determine if they intend to have children before making hiring decisions. Or any of the other multitude of issues raised in this thread.

Pointing to your perception of male oppression in NO WAY changes the fact that women are at a significant disadvantage in our society in certain areas relative to thier male peers. If you feel so strongly about the areas you claim to, you have the right to also promote these things(I think you would gain a lot of sympathy for criminal justice reform, actually). But the fact that you can identify these things in no way disproves the evidence that women are oppressed and face significant hurdles that males do not.


The problem is you fail to acknowledge that your claims are less than solid. The pay gap claim for instance, the fact is the more factors you take into account when making those judgements, the smaller the gap gets until it becomes meaningless, you get pay gaps when you compare apples to oranges. Women do have to make decisions on child birth, that is a fact, you just can't equalize the fact that someone works a year or more more than the other while one takes time off.
This is an unsupported assertion. Multiple studies have found just the opposite, that even after correcting for the factors you mention the gap in pay is very significant. You need to support this assertion if you are going to make it.

The major problem is you speak as if only women have major hurdles to get through in life. The unintentionally implied message there is that women are not as able to handle obstacles in life. If the basis of your arguement begins with slanted questionable statistics, you have to wonder about the validity of your entire argument.
I did no such thing. I even told you that I agree that there are areas where our culture is unfair to men. I simply pointed out that even though that is true, it in no way changes the fact that our culture is unfair to women, and that we should work to improve this facet of our society.
 
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neffer":2dr253zp said:
You can say what you want but the fact of the matter is any credible study that takes into account all the complexities of life choices and the pile of other factors and differences in the statistical pool will find that the gap grows less and less once you take into account such things. The only way you get a huge pay gap is by dismissing factors to compare apples with oranges.

When claims of unfairness are baseless you aren't pointing out things that are unfair to women, you are inflicting additional unfairness upon men.
So in other words you have no evidence to back up your claim? I've read several studies that have found the exact opposite of your claims, and that did indeed take into account the problems you are mentioning. Do you feel all researchers are idiots? Are you aware that the pay gap exists even for career women who never start families or get married, as well as for lesbians?

It doesn't matter if its legally required or company requirement, its an assault on the dignity of men everywhere, and entirely sexist in its motivations.
How so? The training I've attended is gender neutral and demonstrates both male and female sexual harrassment.

Again you must live in the worst part of town because your experience does not match any reality I see with my own eyes, I do not see cat calls by the dozen a day. To have to color reality to that degree to have a point kind of shows how weak your sides case is.
Actually I live in a nice part of town. However even if I did live in a bad part of town, how would that somehow prove your point? Women being harrassed in a bad part of town are still being harrassed on the basis of their gender.

Also, are you a woman? If not, how can you speak authoritatively about the amount of catcalls you see daily? If you are not female, they would not be targetted at you, or even very likely to happen in your presence.
 
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_pay_gap

I suggest some reading be done. The 'adjusted pay gap' is the difference after all other factors are considered. Even in those scenarios the gap is quite large, and on average in the United States females earn only 77% of what their male counterparts earn at equivilent levels of responsibility, performance and experience.
 
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neffer":osuocjca said:
Go read the book by warren farrell "why men earn more", he was one of the original members of the national organization for women. Your wiki link says nothing because it relies on the most broad studies of the supposed difference which do not account for many factors at all. The studies that do take into account for factors do find the difference melts away until if you include benefits the supposed difference shrinks to less than 2%, meaning it becomes a nonsense.
Selection bias: Check
Confirmation bias: Check

Yes, this one book which you have chosen to interpret in the way most beneficial to your point of view outweighs all other studies done. Got it. Wait, what is that you tell me? That science is a collection of studies covering various facets of a topic that over time leads to consensus? Huh, imagine that. I can't just pick and choose that which I think is most beneficial to my case and ignore the mountains of evidence that are not.

Again though, why would 2% be 'nonsense'? Most retirement investments are between 7-10% of a person's income, you are taking 20-30% of that away at a 2% level.

BTW, the link I provided states that the average found is 5-7% that is purely bias, as opposed to other factors. That is most of a person's retirement savings.

Trying to make your point by pretending you are getting cat called everywhere is just not going to convince anyone because people can see reality from experience which does not match your claims. Its just an attempted smear the same way that other post claimed that tech conferences were filled with sexist nerds.
Again, why would you be more of an expert on recieving catcalls than actual women? Why would you call my gf a liar so casually? The day she came home crying because a car full of guys was pacing her as she walked home yelling what they wanted to do to her was entirely in her mind or made up so that I could hypothetically win an argument on an internet forum? Seriously?
 
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neffer":3brvgme5 said:
Its not selection bias when any study that bothers to take into account more factors finds the supposed gap dwindle away. The only way to cling to the narrative that there is a huge gap based on discrimination alone is to really ignore the complexity of the world and the very real and obvious differences between the two genders. When you get down to 2% closing the gap by that much based on the factors you do take into account, you have to consider that there maybe additional factors even more difficult to consider that result in the difference. Adding complexity onto complexity resulting in diminishing of the gap means your original claim of a pay gap is one built on extremely dubious assumptions and evidence.
The selection bias is that you select exactly one book by one researcher and hold it up as the end all of gender studies. That is not how science works. Science is a consensus, based on a multitude of studies from multiple researchers as they all identify gaps that others do not. The consensus is much higher than 2%, my only point was that even at 2% that is pretty significant over the course of a career.

Again, catcalls are catcalls, I have excellent hearing, so unless the men who cat call you are somehow doing it ultrasonically I don't see how your reality matches any that anyone else experiences. You have to concoct a cartoonish version of reality to justify your position, and that kind of say s everything about the quality of evidence you use to form your opinions.
So your argument is that my girlfriend is a liar because your super hearing does not ever hear this type of thing. Fuck you too.

I know you don't like to admit it but the differences between the genders is just plain obvious. The most primal drive is a huge influence on all decisions and behavior. Like it or not there is no 1:1 ratio in this mating game, there are many men that father children by many women, and to do as such they have to have a certain level of arrogance and attraction to risky behavior. This means that for men, there is a chance if you don't take risks your genes do not get passed on, the equation is quite the opposite with women, so like it or not, that is how nature has made it, and it probably influences decisions in the work place as well, women do choose safer jobs, stable jobs, jobs with more benefits, and thus less risk and less reward. You don't have youtube filled with videos of women injuring themselves for fun or doing incredibly stupid things. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNZCZsHJIR8&ob=av3e
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yKkkgVgULyw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCudcVno1gQ
And you don't have women filling the prisons at a rate of 90% either, and you never will, if you have men being 9 out of 10 prisoners, why would anything else be exactly equal? You are starting off with a highly unequal pool to begin with.
"Just plain obvious" usually means "Just plain obvious to me". The fact that almost everyone in the thread is arguing against you, and using evidence and studies to do so, means it is NOT 'just plain obvious' to most people. Which means its not obvious at all.

You have your opinion and your sticking to it, facts be damned. Thats fine, but don't be suprised when others scoff at you.
 
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So your argument is that my girlfriend is a liar because your super hearing does not ever hear this type of thing. Fuck you too.

"Just plain obvious" usually means "Just plain obvious to me". The fact that almost everyone in the thread is arguing against you, and using evidence and studies to do so, means it is NOT 'just plain obvious' to most people. Which means its not obvious at all.

You have your opinion and your sticking to it, facts be damned. Thats fine, but don't be suprised when others scoff at you.

Facts seems to differ from your perspective of things.

I know you mean well but human history do not agree with you ..
Really? Which facts? Can you lay them out for me and the peer reviewed studies and general consensus that supports them? I'm going to need a lot more than just your word.
 
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neffer":2qi6rxqj said:
Selection bias is something you should look up the definition to because its multiple studies that find that the more factors you look at, the less the gap becomes. You wish to cling onto the most simplistic studies for your opinion. In any case the base assumption is flawed when you assume that any gap is only explainable through discrimination when the two subject pools you are comparing are fundamentally different.
What makes your choice of studies more authoritative than the general consensus? Why do you assert that the gap is only explainable your way and discount the general consensus? You keep asserting that your sources are better than mine. What I am asking for is *why*?

Also, I never said it was *only* explainable via discrimination. I said that is *one* factor. In fact I distinguished specifically between the gap and the discriminatory part of it.

Plain obvious is plain obvious. Its plain obvious catcalls are not ringing through the streets at all times during the day as you like to claim for your opinion to hold true. Your anecdotal evidence is laughable, its not whether your gf is lying about it, its the fact that you can't understand your anecdotal evidence has no relation to the claims you are making, slandering an entire gender by pretending cat calls ring through the streets all day long. Its no better than a racist claiming all black people are criminals because they claimed they were mugged. You have to portray a cartoonishly sexist view of reality to support your opinions, and ignore the facts of difference between the genders. If your simplistic view of the world would hold true is if women supported the wnba as much as the men support the nba, but you know very well that isn't true, you just ignore the facts of the world. People/genders have difference preferences, different motivations, and that causes different results.
It is 'plain obvious' that you are not a female.
 
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I'm not going to enter into this argument but I need to understand one thing:
Are you claiming that the HUGE hormonal differences between men and women, the whole extra chromosome and all the other differences in our metabolisms have ZERO effect in our average mental organization?
Or that they are cultural in nature?
Or that there are tons of intellectual differences but the preference for pink is not one of them?
If it is the later, I would tend to agree (but anyway consider it irrelevant, as it is not demeaning in any way to market to a preference that many women share, wether it is genetically originated or cultural). But if it is any of the former, I would like to understand your reasoning. The fact that most men like women and most women like men is certainly not cultural, and it is definitely based on brain activity.
The point is not that there are not differences. The point is that the differences are not necessarily what is reflected in our society. I am in tech. I do a lot of interviews for my company. Candidates who are from the US are almost always males. Candidates from India and China are split about 50/50, with females being often the best candidates. This strongly implies to me that the supposed aversion to tech that women as a group have according to my culture is purely a cultural artifact, and has no relation to genetics since those from other cultures do not seem to have this aversion.

The discussion is really about what is an *actual* difference between males and females, and what is a difference only due to the culture we have created. The former we have no control over. The latter we absolutely can and should change as it is unfair to females.
 
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Sorry no, females in india have less choice about the careers they choose, they are practically forced into engineering by their families for reasons of pride which is why they are disproportionate compared to westeren females, but even then they are outnumbered 6:1http://machinedesign.com/article/engineering-in-india-1108, but they are most certainly not "often the best candidates" as you say, there is no evidence for that at all, I would be they end up with most not using their degree at all. The number of women earning degrees in india is lower than in america even to begin wtih, so I'd have to say that you are exasperating or have a bias to only notice that there are more female indians than you thought, which is perception, not reality.

"And human resource experts have no complaints from women engineering employees. They tend to be more loyal, and are rarely known to switch jobs for higher salary alone"
http://www.outlookindia.com/article.aspx?237799
and theres your wage gap...

Lol
You are ignoring my point. My point is that in thier culture there is no bias against engineering for women. Forced or not, they produce a ton of female engineers and they are at parity with their male counterparts. I was not making the case that women in India have it better than the USA. I was simply pointing out that women in India are as likely to enter engineering fields as males in India, and that the engineers produced are no worse than their male counterparts.

Over the past three months I have interviewed 28 candidates for positions at my tech company. 8 have been from the USA, all males. 16 have been from India, and four from China. Of that group, half were female. I gave a thumbs up to five candidates out of that field, one was an american, four were Indian. Two of the Indians were female.

I do not have any official internal statistics, but other interviewers I've discussed this with have noticed this trend as well. Female engineers tend to come from outside the USA, and they tend to be as good or better than their male peers.

Spin that however you wish, but the fact is that in a culture that does not discriminate against the concept of female engineers, female engineers seem to abound.
 
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You are ignoring the explicit point which is there is not a bias against, but for going into engineering and medicine regardless of the interest of the student in many cultures.

Given free choice many of those women would not have chosen that path.

Your sample is small, disproportionate, and not representative, the fact is the majority of engineers in india are still male.
I never said it was representative. I said that the engineers that are produced are equally qualified regardless of gender, pressure or anything else. Which throws genetic arguments out the window.

Also, why do you assume that only the women are pressured? In India, all children are pressured to get into good universities and get high end jobs, usually this means medicine or engineering. Given free choice, many of these men also would not have chosen this path.

My point is that the choice of a path is not the relevant factor.
 
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Linkdead":1q8ikg8d said:
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So your argument is that my girlfriend is a liar because your super hearing does not ever hear this type of thing. Fuck you too.

"Just plain obvious" usually means "Just plain obvious to me". The fact that almost everyone in the thread is arguing against you, and using evidence and studies to do so, means it is NOT 'just plain obvious' to most people. Which means its not obvious at all.

You have your opinion and your sticking to it, facts be damned. Thats fine, but don't be suprised when others scoff at you.

Facts seems to differ from your perspective of things.

I know you mean well but human history do not agree with you ..
Really? Which facts? Can you lay them out for me and the peer reviewed studies and general consensus that supports them? I'm going to need a lot more than just your word.


You are just a troll Reflex .. If the moon was knocking on your door you would ask the sun to go away .
You are making unsupported assertions that fly in the face of hundreds of studies. It is not unreasonable to ask that you back up your 'human history' with, you know, evidence. Or is that trollish?
 
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