I don't think we hang with similar crowds. Quite a few of my neighbors have no idea how to handle long-term investing in their retirement whatever, look at the stock market with a daily "I lost money" on the day-to-day fluctuations. They'll put their money in the index fund, but fret over it well before they have to. They just don't teach this stuff in K-12 schools. Should.There's no crisis. Most investors in the stock market invest through broad-based mutual funds, often index funds with low fees. A lot of people have access to target date funds, which automatically adjust adjust bond/equity mix as the person ages. There is no crisis here.
If someone has even the slightest inkling of how investment works in the U.S., they would know that the stock market is not limited to the rich. It's such an incredibly inaccurate claim that just referring to it as that poster's "perspective" is in itself astonishing. As often pointed out, one is not entitled to one's own facts, and such a fundamental inaccuracy is not "casual metaphor". As mentioned above, almost 2/3 of Americans are invested in the stock market, and the minimum starting investment in something like Vanguard's target date funds is $1,000. Really, you have to be rich to participate in the stock market? Please...
My first wife's company's 401K was through a management company that went so far in hiding fees as to have funds that were solely invested in single, broadly held funds, but unitizing shares differently to mask the amount being extracted from her account on top of those cost. I didn't kick too much. She was literally employee # 13 for that company, and the fact she had a 401K at all was petty cool. Eventually she reached a position where she was able to influence a shift in providers. The cash-out reporting gave me enough information to figure out her account had been hit for close to triple the fees of the underlying accounts. Compound that over thirty-forty years...Yup. Honestly the biggest issue with 401(k)s is the management fees are often ridiculously high. When I left my first employer I ended up rolling my 401(k) balance into an IRA to get the fees down to something reasonable.
Why is fretting an issue? We were talking about the fact that (1) it is not only the rich that have access to investing in the stock market and (2) the stock market is not a lottery. I don't recall ever claiming no one worries about their investments.I don't think we hang with similar crowds. Quite a few of my neighbors have no idea how to handle long-term investing in their retirement whatever, look at the stock market with a daily "I lost money" on the day-to-day fluctuations. They'll put their money in the index fund, but fret over it well before they have to. They just don't teach this stuff in K-12 schools. Should.
My dad was a conventional banker, made the bank decent money because he was a good judge of character and business plans for small-business loans. Stock market, not his thing, made his retirement work on CDs when they paid decent interest, a thing he understood. Like a lot of people, he thought if you weren't actively trading, you weren't doing it right.
That's part of the angst regarding the pension in the PNW machinists strike negotiations. They want someone else to handle the risk for them, even a 'terrible' company like Boeing.
I found out through my own stupidity that an actively managed fund can turn good results over a long term. When I was an Air Force Captain, I got roped into a front-end load mutual fund, where they kept half of my contribution for the first year. Had precisely the intended effect on me, couldn't consider pulling out with half my money already gone, so I pitched in for a few years. Got married, stopped contribution, and literally forgot about it. 30 years later, assembling the hodge-podge of stuff that makes up my retirement I dug out the unopened statements, found out the balance I left in it had increased 10x. Not an aggressive fund, but one that adjusted the portfolio annually or so.Almost everyone I know does, unless they're literally living paycheck to paycheck. Most people with 401(k) retirement funds will invest it in a stock market index fund, because most of the alternatives don't have a prayer of staying ahead of inflation. If you have a pension, your employer is investing in the stock market on your behalf.
Oh, I'm not talking about worry, I'm talking about ignorance of the dynamic.Why is fretting an issue? We were talking about the fact that (1) it is not only the rich that have access to investing in the stock market and (2) the stock market is not a lottery. I don't recall ever claiming no one worries about their investments.![]()
While it's easy to say "This decision was pivotal in the disaster that occurred." It's harder to say "This person/These people are responsible for this decision." It's nearly impossible to say "These people should've known that this decision would lead to people dying" especially in the whacky world of software development.359 innocent people died and Boing knew the MCAS could/would cause problems for pilots and they buried it. How someone isn't in prison for this shows you what kind of country we live in. (where big companies are basically untouchable) Disgusting.
Well there you go, paycheck to paycheck over here, with a modest savings whenever I can manage for emergencies like car issues that would otherwise ruin me. I don't know anyone that isn't living like that, at least in real life.Almost everyone I know does, unless they're literally living paycheck to paycheck. Most people with 401(k) retirement funds will invest it in a stock market index fund, because most of the alternatives don't have a prayer of staying ahead of inflation. If you have a pension, your employer is investing in the stock market on your behalf.
Having an emergency fund is definitely a higher priority than investing.Well there you go, paycheck to paycheck over here, with a modest savings whenever I can manage for emergencies like car issues that would otherwise ruin me. I don't know anyone that isn't living like that, at least in real life.
Having an emergency fund is definitely a higher priority than investing.
I think the problem here is the lack of specificity of “rich”. We all have our own notion of what that looks like. When I hear that word, I think “fancy house and car” not “has an emergency fund”.
So to be more accurate, investing is for those who have “enough” saved to cover likely emergencies and want to use any additional savings to help themselves out in the long term.
I don't even consider myself "poor", I'm middle class, but definitely not "upper middle class". I can survive a $400 fee, but a $1000 fee? That gives me pause. Health insurance is a blessing that allows me to survive other unplanned for incidents.Demarcations of wealth are always judged by the median. The US is more than a bit bizarre in this regard, however, because it has 18 million millionaires and yet 40% of american households could not survive an unplanned $400 expense.
Something I, living in that socialist hellhole of Sweden, find utterly unbelievable.
People who can't survive a one-time payment of $400 is, over here, the sort of people we see in reality shows as rare warning example of blundering stupidity. In the US that's just the average breadwinner with a house and family.
In the US, "being wealthy" can vary wildly between some areas of Virginia and Tennessee where "Eating every day" can be the divider between the haves and have-nots, and other areas where "having a second SUV" might be the accepted divider.
It's more clear-cut in europe where this gaussian curve of household revenue is still a whole lot flatter.
I don't even consider myself "poor", I'm middle class, but definitely not "upper middle class". I can survive a $400 fee, but a $1000 fee? That gives me pause. Health insurance is a blessing that allows me to survive other unplanned for incidents.
Good perspective. What I'll add that really applies anywhere is that individuals' priorities add to the dynamic. I recall some years ago perusing a thread on another forum where quite a few of the posters were questioning how a person the subject of a news article who lived in a mobile home could afford to own and operate an airplane. Our individual notions of wealth can be sorely misguided by our own expectations.Myeah, the thing is, in the US statistically the middle class is a very slim slice of the socioeconomic diagram. The treasury report asserting that 40% number I hold to be credible, which means that you are, in fact, in the upper middle class.
But that is, of course, statistics. I don't know where you live but if everyone around you seems about as well off or better then you make your demarcation accordingly.
Meanwhile if you were in the poorer parts of Tennessee or Virginia you'd come off as King Croesus in comparison to your surroundings.
The sheer size of the US and the vast gap between the 1% and the rest - or the 5% and the rest, for that matter - makes it clear that the wealth disparity is wild compared to the more sedate curve in nations where the vast majority of the citizenry are what would count as a middle class.
the company suffered for decades from “a cultural challenge, where they focused on short-term profitability and the short-term stock price at the expense of what made Boeing great, which is building great products.”
I can't argue with that, but yes the thing is whatever the national definition is, I have to define things based on my surroundings and experience. Funny thing is I once lived in a neighborhood that shifted socioeconomic classes like it was a School House Rock diagram, with a trailer part on one end, scaling up and up until there were McMansions on properties that took up a whole block on the other end. I didn't live in the trailer park, definitely didn't live in one of those McMansions, but somewhere in between.Myeah, the thing is, in the US statistically the middle class is a very slim slice of the socioeconomic diagram. The treasury report asserting that 40% number I hold to be credible, which means that you are, in fact, in the upper middle class.
But that is, of course, statistics. I don't know where you live but if everyone around you seems about as well off or better then you make your demarcation accordingly.
Meanwhile if you were in the poorer parts of Tennessee or Virginia you'd come off as King Croesus in comparison to your surroundings.
The sheer size of the US and the vast gap between the 1% and the rest - or the 5% and the rest, for that matter - makes it clear that the wealth disparity is wild compared to the more sedate curve in nations where the vast majority of the citizenry are what would count as a middle class.
Yep, also depends on where you live. Spent two years at Kwajalein working on a missile program. When they concluded testing there, they told the missile folk they'd have to choose between Vandenburg AFB (Lompoc, CA), or Huntsville AL for follow-on jobs. I was in their area one day, someone had posted a couple of pictures on their cubicle wall, titled them "what you can get for $190K". One was a double-wide mobile home in Lompoc, the other was a 3-bedroom 2-bath brick house, two-car garage on 1/3 acre.I can't argue with that, but yes the thing is whatever the national definition is, I have to define things based on my surroundings and experience. Funny thing is I once lived in a neighborhood that shifted socioeconomic classes like it was a School House Rock diagram, with a trailer part on one end, scaling up and up until there were McMansions on properties that took up a whole block on the other end. I didn't live in the trailer park, definitely didn't live in one of those McMansions, but somewhere in between.
I think that makes sense in an academic context (though they usually are more explicit and just say Nth percentile right?). But that does not strike me as correct for everyday usage. People generally seem to base their definitions of wealth off their own experience/feelings with where they think they fit in the socio-economic hierarchy as an anchoring point.Demarcations of wealth are always judged by the median. The US is more than a bit bizarre in this regard, however, because it has 18 million millionaires and yet 40% of american households could not survive an unplanned $400 expense.
Something I, living in that "socialist hellhole" of Sweden, find utterly unbelievable.
People who can't survive a one-time payment of $400 is, over here, the sort of people we see in reality shows as rare warning example of blundering stupidity. In the US that's just the average breadwinner with a house and family.
In the US, "being wealthy" can vary wildly between some areas of Virginia and Tennessee where "Eating every day" can be the divider between the haves and have-nots, and other areas where "having a second SUV" might be the accepted divider.
It's more clear-cut in europe where this gaussian curve of household revenue is still a whole lot flatter.
That's about the long and short of it.I think that makes sense in an academic context (though they usually are more explicit and just say Nth percentile right?). But that does not strike me as correct for everyday usage. People generally seem to base their definitions of wealth off their own experience/feelings with where they think they fit in the socio-economic hierarchy as an anchoring point.
“I think I’m middle class. This person has way more than me, so they’re rich. This person seems to have a little less, so they are lower-middle class.” Etc.
And they are almost certainly calibrating their perception of where they fit based on an approximate view of their own finances along with a stew of feelings and identity. Not referencing a wealth distribution curve published by a government agency.
A problem that the writers of The Simpsons have to contend with - the Simpsons were originally written to be explicitly lower-middle class (the family cars are clunkers with unrepaired damage, Marge buys second-hand clothes or makes her own). Most self-identifying middle-class people would say that they were better off than the Simpsons.That's about the long and short of it.
A problem that the writers of The Simpsons have to contend with - the Simpsons were originally written to be explicitly lower-middle class (the family cars are clunkers with unrepaired damage, Marge buys second-hand clothes or makes her own). Most self-identifying middle-class people would say that they were better off than the Simpsons.
By contemporary standards? The Simpsons own their own house, have 2 cars, pay for Lisa's extracurricular music lessons, can afford an annual holiday - all on the paycheck of one person. Many middle-class-identifying people today would consider that an aspirational situation.
A problem that the writers of The Simpsons have to contend with - the Simpsons were originally written to be explicitly lower-middle class (the family cars are clunkers with unrepaired damage, Marge buys second-hand clothes or makes her own). Most self-identifying middle-class people would say that they were better off than the Simpsons.
By contemporary standards? The Simpsons own their own house, have 2 cars, pay for Lisa's extracurricular music lessons, can afford an annual holiday - all on the paycheck of one person. Many middle-class-identifying people today would consider that an aspirational situation.
For that matter, they bought their house with money they got when Grandpa sold his house.In the same sentiment, when financial emergencies pop up with family members, it's a scramble across the whole extended family to somehow wrangle enough money together, along with essentially begging landlords and lenders to reconsider, that gets them back on their feet. My mom in fact is dealing with such a crisis as we speak.
Good perspective. What I'll add that really applies anywhere is that individuals' priorities add to the dynamic. I recall some years ago perusing a thread on another forum where quite a few of the posters were questioning how a person the subject of a news article who lived in a mobile home could afford to own and operate an airplane. Our individual notions of wealth can be sorely misguided by our own expectations.
Eh, it's only an issue because our idea of these things is based on expensive coastal cities that are growing.
They can afford a house, but it's in a run-down town that was designated "America's crud bucket."
Many towns in the Midwest have been slowly shrinking for over 40 years now and are hanging on by a thread. If you manage to find a job at the one remaining employer who pays decent wages in those towns, you can afford a house.
This is also why Burns has so much power. The town literally lives or dies based on whether his plant stays open.
You're not wrong. Heck, if you watch those old episodes, there's an air of well... despair to them. Just watching an episode from the first season just feels... sad, the whole way through.
And yes, the thought of actually owning a house is way beyond my means at this point. Indeed, I'm starting to realize where a lot of differences between me and other posters over the past few years have come from. From explaining that I can't just buy a new car whenever, but if a used electric becomes available that's my intended next upgrade but only after I've driven my current car to death (which I thought was an odd sentiment to downvote at the time), to explaining that the lesson I learned from my last generation of family is "don't buy things I can't afford" which resulted in a weirdly misplaced notion that I needed to be "gotcha'd", as if cases where I DID in fact have to take out a loan somehow proved my general rule "wrong" or something, well it all makes sense if I realize that there's just a sort of class divide going on there, which I hadn't suspected mainly because I, as I said, consider myself middle class by the standards of those around me.
In the same sentiment, when financial emergencies pop up with family members, it's a scramble across the whole extended family to somehow wrangle enough money together, along with essentially begging landlords and lenders to reconsider, that gets them back on their feet. My mom in fact is dealing with such a crisis as we speak.
In the major cities it's more like Europe - municipal transport with coverage sufficient to service both residential and commercial areas, which also might be closer in proximity. Although, there are still long commutes in some places; look at NYC, where it's becoming harder to both live and work on Manhattan without some multi-six-figure income. Really have to inspect the specific situation.In the US having a car is a must almost no matter where you live - and that presents an additional barrier of entry to even the poorest part of the middle class. In most parts of europe and certainly every major city a car is in comparison a convenience, not an absolute necessity.

Had that well-described by a table-mate at evening dining on a cruise we took a few years ago. He was from IIRC Liverpool UK, a 'decorator', or what we'd call a house painter in the US. We got to talking about nationalized medical, given that the Obamacare proposal was wending its way through the hoops at the time, and he took on describing the nationalized UK alternative in increasingly audible terms. "If I'm creamed in a car accident, I get right in to the care I need to save my ass. HOWEVER, If I Get A Boil On My Butt, I By the Time I Get To My Appointment SIX MONTH LATER The Bloody Thing's GONE!" We'd sailed out of Southampton, so a lot of Brits on board; most of the folk at adjacent tables (and further) had turned to look, and were nodding in agreement...Similarly there is no conceivable way that I will ever be in a situation so dire I couldn't afford the administrative fee of health care, no matter how extensive the potential treatment would be. In the US not having at least decent medical coverage means good odds that you will eventually end up with crippling medical debt.
Oh come on, there's some pretty respectable trailer parks in the US. And, some time ago they did something to codify construction standards, so the quality isn't as shit as it used to be. Still, not a dwelling that tolerates tornadoes too well....From a US perspective your tale is pretty normal. This is what is so scary - because you describe a situation which in the 60's would have been the problem only of the impoverished drunk living in the seedier part of town. Yet today? It's the middle class, only because you don't live in a trailer park or a cardboard box.
In the major cities it's more like Europe - municipal transport with coverage sufficient to service both residential and commercial areas, which also might be closer in proximity. Although, there are still long commutes in some places; look at NYC, where it's becoming harder to both live and work on Manhattan without some multi-six-figure income. Really have to inspect the specific situation.
And, it's not just recent. I recall meeting a fellow in Air Force basic training in 1975 from NYC, had never driven a car, didn't hold a license. He said, "just didn't need to, the subway runs where I need". Funny, the job specialty he got out of basic was Motor Pool Operator...![]()
Had that well-described by a table-mate at evening dining on a cruise we took a few years ago. He was from IIRC Liverpool UK, a 'decorator', or what we'd call a house painter in the US. We got to talking about nationalized medical, given that the Obamacare proposal was wending its way through the hoops at the time, and he took on describing the nationalized UK alternative in increasingly audible terms. "If I'm creamed in a car accident, I get right in to the care I need to save my ass. HOWEVER, If I Get A Boil On My Butt, I By the Time I Get To My Appointment SIX MONTH LATER The Bloody Thing's GONE!" We'd sailed out of Southampton, so a lot of Brits on board; most of the folk at adjacent tables (and further) had turned to look, and were nodding in agreement...
Depending on where you live in the US, it can be worse. The area I currently live in has a massive doctor shortage, because doctor pay hasn't kept up with housing prices; basically doctors (and especially specialists) keep leaving for places where they can buy more house for their money. My wife was given a dermatology appointment 18 months out by the only network that took our insurance.Had that well-described by a table-mate at evening dining on a cruise we took a few years ago. He was from IIRC Liverpool UK, a 'decorator', or what we'd call a house painter in the US. We got to talking about nationalized medical, given that the Obamacare proposal was wending its way through the hoops at the time, and he took on describing the nationalized UK alternative in increasingly audible terms. "If I'm creamed in a car accident, I get right in to the care I need to save my ass. HOWEVER, If I Get A Boil On My Butt, I By the Time I Get To My Appointment SIX MONTH LATER The Bloody Thing's GONE!" We'd sailed out of Southampton, so a lot of Brits on board; most of the folk at adjacent tables (and further) had turned to look, and were nodding in agreement...
Rural areas in our state are feeling that pinch. It's always been that way, small communities struggling to get a 'town doctor', a lot worse now that there's all the specialty medicine and its associated facilities needed to extend our lifespans to outstrip our pensions... Oops, that rolled into a rant, sorry, kinda...Depending on where you live in the US, it can be worse. The area I currently live in has a massive doctor shortage, because doctor pay hasn't kept up with housing prices; basically doctors (and especially specialists) keep leaving for places where they can buy more house for their money. My wife was given a dermatology appointment 18 months out by the only network that took our insurance.
Rural areas in our state are feeling that pinch. It's always been that way, small communities struggling to get a 'town doctor', a lot worse now that there's all the specialty medicine and its associated facilities needed to extend our lifespans to outstrip our pensions... Oops, that rolled into a rant, sorry, kinda...
A predilection to focus on what one does NOT have vs what one does have is a fault shared by those across the entire curve of wealth distribution. Sadly the impact of not having certain things is far more painful for those at the lower end, and when acted upon by those at the upper end, tends to cause even more issues for the less fortunate.I think that makes sense in an academic context (though they usually are more explicit and just say Nth percentile right?). But that does not strike me as correct for everyday usage. People generally seem to base their definitions of wealth off their own experience/feelings with where they think they fit in the socio-economic hierarchy as an anchoring point.
“I think I’m middle class. This person has way more than me, so they’re rich. This person seems to have a little less, so they are lower-middle class.” Etc.
And they are almost certainly calibrating their perception of where they fit based on an approximate view of their own finances along with a stew of feelings and identity. Not referencing a wealth distribution curve published by a government agency.
edit: definitely agree about the insanity of the wealth distribution in the states though. It is both objectively and subjectively terrible.
Honestly, the last two sentences (bolded by me) are the only good bit of advice in this post, IMO. Even for long-term investments, trying to pick stocks as an amateur is a mug's game, and very much is a gamble.
I invested about 75% of our money in market index ETFs, and the other 25% in individual stocks. The 25% is worth as much today as the 75%. And I'm an amateur, a "mug" by your definition....tracking the broad market is the optimal play over the long run.