So what’s your thoughts of a certain state governor mocking Dear Leader by adopting his style?Just to single out this bit, because I think it's worth commenting on further.
Calling JK Rowling "Joanne" is meant to be insulting and demeaning, by using a name she does not refer to herself by in public, in a familiar way.
I've always found it troubling and cringey when people who claim to be trans allies adopt the deadnaming tactics of the people they're critical of.
But, beyond that, on a personal level, it's really irritating because it just sows confusion. Nobody knows who the fuck you're talking about with the cutesy stuff. It is absolutely childish.
It's just as bad as when people call Elon Musk "Elmo" and the like. There's a reason we ban that kind of behavior in the Soap Box.
There is a difference between mocking someone by acting out their foolish behaviors versus adopting their assholishnesses. One is funny and the other is just being another jerk.So what’s your thoughts of a certain state governor mocking Dear Leader by adopting his style?
Holding a mirror up to someone can be a powerful tool.
I've always thought that you don't anything but his actual name. "Musk" has vaguely unpleasant connotations for me.I never liked the Elmo nick (I mean, "Lone Skum" is RIGHT THERE!)
Unfortunately, you are preaching to the willfully deaf.I concur, but extremism creates extremists. Hate and anger just does that. It to me is bait, that is purposefully made to get people to do things like this. I know you are but what am I type of silliness.
Not saying she doesn't deserve to be deadnamed....but am saying deadnaming her doesn't help the situation, win the argument, or do anything but make more anger and more extremism. She deserves a lot of things, but that doesn't make the situation better. In fact i think there are a ton of people Jk included, who would be a whole lot less extremist if people didn't resort to full bully culture ALL THE TIME.
Woste thing is I still laugh at those comments at her, but people can't have a middle road conversation about it where things have degrees. Is JK anti trans in a hateful way? Yes. Is she calling for all trans people to be murdered and that they will all go to hell and are satan spawn and raping children constantly? No. Are there a lot of weird extremists who believe that? Yes. Degrees exist.
Like it or not, grey is likely the best we will ever get in this world. A whole lot of people need to stop trying to win and get to black and white.
That’s more or less the shape of it, methinks.Like it or not, grey is likely the best we will ever get in this world. A whole lot of people need to stop trying to win and get to black and white.
And how would you rate the likelihood of the above happening? Because I read your post and upvoted it but... You're basically stating there's no option left but violence, if we're being honest. Is that what you meant to say?The solution to this very much lies in GOP hands, and in Trump's hands. He needs to de-escalate, and not just in verbal rhetoric --- but by correcting all the things mentioned above that would restore people's faith in ballot boxes, courts, and peaceful protest. Because if you take those options away, then what is left but violence?
I refuse to even accept this as understandable. Because what you're doing is giving cover to common people to deadname trans celebrities because they're rich and famous and have power and therefore deserve it. Is it cool to deadname Caitlyn Jenner? She's an author and celeb too.Yeah, I largely agree with this, but I understand it is as well. It is a power asymmetry thing. How does one have any voice against billionaire level reach and power? Cheap shots are often a way to try and (de)humanise the powerful. To mock them. To bring them into a normal reality. Not good, but I understand it
I think it's stupid. I don't think it's powerful, I think it's a PR move to try and rebuild Newsom's image after he trashed it with people on the left.So what’s your thoughts of a certain state governor mocking Dear Leader by adopting his style?
Holding a mirror up to someone can be a powerful tool.
IMO, if they deliberately use incorrect names for others in a denigrating/invalidating way, then it's perfectly okay to do the same thing back. You're just treating them as they choose to treat others.I refuse to even accept this as understandable. Because what you're doing is giving cover to common people to deadname trans celebrities because they're rich and famous and have power and therefore deserve it. Is it cool to deadname Caitlyn Jenner? She's an author and celeb too.
"It's okay when I do it" is almost always a cop out.
I can’t speak for Aurich, but as someone who has shared his disdain for Newsom,So what’s your thoughts of a certain state governor mocking Dear Leader by adopting his style?
Holding a mirror up to someone can be a powerful tool.
"Stooping," is the word you seek.IMO, if they deliberately use incorrect names for others in a denigrating/invalidating way, then it's perfectly okay to do the same thing back. You're just treating them as they choose to treat others.
If you focus on everything you will get nothing. So prioritize first, get power, then help as many as you can. Anything else is a fantasy.No, we should absolutely not quietly ignore the bigotry in an effort to "win hearts, minds and votes."
So how does that work? They're allowed to deadname trans people now because it's perfectly okay to do it back to you? We just go back and forth? Everything is fair game as long as we're all assholes?IMO, if they deliberately use incorrect names for others in a denigrating/invalidating way, then it's perfectly okay to do the same thing back. You're just treating them as they choose to treat others.
Your willingness to cast aside the most vulnerable and victimized in hopes of being popular has been noted. We understand your stance of telling the persecuted and slandered that they have to continue to wait until their abusers stop abusing them before we can be allowed to stand with them. That you see it as necessary to sell out vilified minorities for electoral gain has been made clear. I think we are all in agreement on what your position is, thanks.If you focus on everything you will get nothing. So prioritize first, get power, then help as many as you can. Anything else is a fantasy.
I would love for trans rights to be something that the USA cares enough about to push back on the right wing of the country. it's not. Focus on the rich taking power. Focus on health care. Focus on equality for all. If you chop everything up into every tiny thing you play right into their hands. You will not get in power long enough to do anything. The last 8 years proves it.
I don't like it. i think it sucks. Being correct and moral is what should matter but messaging and getting people on your side is not an option. It is everything.
Is that the royal 'we' you are using? I don't remember the vote appointing you as anyone's spokesman.Your willingness to cast aside the most vulnerable and victimized in hopes of being popular has been noted. We understand your stance of telling the persecuted and slandered that they have to continue to wait until their abusers stop abusing them before we can be allowed to stand with them. That you see it as necessary to sell out vilified minorities for electoral gain has been made clear. I think we are all in agreement on what your position is, thanks.
Thanks for your permission. It means a lot.By all means keep being smug in your ideological purity
Prioritizing your message doesn't cast anyone aside. Throwing away elections so you feel better does.Your willingness to cast aside the most vulnerable and victimized in hopes of being popular has been noted. We understand your stance of telling the persecuted and slandered that they have to continue to wait until their abusers stop abusing them before we can be allowed to stand with them. That you see it as necessary to sell out vilified minorities for electoral gain has been made clear. I think we are all in agreement on what your position is, thanks.
Of course not, but we're definitely talking about two different things. JK Rowling has not renounced her first name. Is it deadnaming to call her that? Surely it is just disrespectful or para-social behaviourIs it cool to deadname Caitlyn Jenner?
I think anyone who would like to believe the GOP and its supporters can continue operating the way they have over the past 6 months in particular, let alone the past ~9 years, without a sharp increase in violence is fooling themselves. We're already seeing this happen.And how would you rate the likelihood of the above happening? Because I read your post and upvoted it but... You're basically stating there's no option left but violence, if we're being honest. Is that what you meant to say?
Right. Systematically disenfranchising votes is part of that abuse the post you responded to was talking about.Prioritizing your message doesn't cast anyone aside. Throwing away elections so you feel better does.
I think it's trying something that seems to actually be exciting people.I think it's stupid. I don't think it's powerful, I think it's a PR move to try and rebuild Newsom's image after he trashed it with people on the left.
Where that woman is concerned there’s a key difference though - her name is Joanne. Has she publicly stated that she wishes to be known as ‘Terrence’, or ‘Harry’, or ‘Susan’ or ‘J’? No?* Then Joanne is her name.They're allowed to deadname trans people now because it's perfectly okay to do it back to you?
I always think if the wizards in her books were real, someone would have given her a penis. Voldemort obviously. And Luna Lovegood most likely, she knows a thing or two about discrimination.FYI JK (the Joanne thing is childish), is a nutbar. She is all over the place and clearly very damaged. Her stance on trans rights is equivalent to every white person who doesn't want to give black people equal rights. I think her stance on trans people is disgusting and horrible....and still not nearly as bad as Kirks' stance on misogamy, white nationalism, and racism.
If you focus on everything you will get nothing. So prioritize first, get power, then help as many as you can. Anything else is a fantasy.
I would love for trans rights to be something that the USA cares enough about to push back on the right wing of the country. it's not. Focus on the rich taking power. Focus on health care. Focus on equality for all. If you chop everything up into every tiny thing you play right into their hands. You will not get in power long enough to do anything. The last 8 years proves it.
I don't like it. i think it sucks. Being correct and moral is what should matter but messaging and getting people on your side is not an option. It is everything.
I stuck my oar in because you were trying to bully someone who disagreed with you into silence. I despise authoritarians whatever ideology they hide behind.Thanks for your permission. It means a lot.![]()
I'm sorry, but what are you talking about? You seem to be responding to a bunch of things I did not say and ignoring almost all of what I did say. All I ever said to you was effectively that Joanne Rowling's transphobia is not "lesser" in some way than (for example) Kirk's racism and to avoid implying as such. I haven't ventured any opinion on "focus" or made any relevant specific comment on Kirk himself outside of relating to the framing you used.Oig, come on. I am saying we are focusing on the least horrible thing he did and you are acting like I am saying it was ok. This is a very stupid way to look at where we should focus. I said several times it was horrible, and gross, but instead you are acting like I am apologizing for his views on trans people because I said it was some of his less horrible views.
This is perfectionist idiocy. You can't focus on everything, it just doesn't work. He was horrible on many things. His trans views, while abhorrent were not his MOST abhorrent things. I am making a statement about how you push back on right wing insanity by saying focusing on the most niche issue then gets turned against you when it is his most defensible horrible thing. Do you understand that? IT WAS HIS LEAST HORRIBLE DOES NOT MEAN IT WASN'T HORRIBLE! It's like attacking someone with a broken left arm from his right side. You are hitting one of his least vulnerable spots...that doesnt' mean it's not horrible or I am apologizing for it.
Still someone tried to talk strategy about how to go at a horrible person at his weakest point, and that isn't the point you feel the most about so you are pushing back on it. This is exactly why they are winning right now, and ruining the country and world.
FYI JK (the Joanne thing is childish), is a nutbar. She is all over the place and clearly very damaged. Her stance on trans rights is equivalent to every white person who doesn't want to give black people equal rights. I think her stance on trans people is disgusting and horrible....and still not nearly as bad as Kirks' stance on misogamy, white nationalism, and racism.
Just perfectionist bullshit. Stop eating your own, and focus on the real bad guys.
We had an exchange of opinions, and part of my opinion was spelling out exactly what their finger-wagging means in the real world. They told me I should lay off including Kirk's anti-trans bigotry because it's not popular with the voters, I told them I'm not going to because I find that instruction morally disgusting.I stuck my oar in because you were trying to bully someone who disagreed with you into silence. I despise authoritarians whatever ideology they hide behind.
I feel like that ignores common courtesy, though. I'm not on a first-name basis with Ms. Rowling, and I'm going to go out on a limb and assume jtwrenn is not, either. No, it's not the same thing, but it's doing a similar thing, for similar reasons.Where that woman is concerned there’s a key difference though - her name is Joanne. Has she publicly stated that she wishes to be known as ‘Terrence’, or ‘Harry’, or ‘Susan’ or ‘J’? No?* Then Joanne is her name.
I'll be honest, I'm not big on common courtesy towards individuals who have dedicated their lives to making the lives of others as horrible as possible.I feel like that ignores common courtesy, though.
The whole fucking point is that referring to someone as the name they'd prefer is common courtesy, not some deadly imposition by Communist thought-police enforcing right-think on some plucky common-sense protagonist in a world gone made as transphobes portray it to be.I feel like that ignores common courtesy, though. I'm not on a first-name basis with Ms. Rowling, and I'm going to go out on a limb and assume jtwrenn is not, either. No, it's not the same thing, but it's doing a similar thing, for similar reasons.
Ahhh, yes, the "we have tried nothing and are all out of ideas so maybe the 2000th No Kings Protest will engender a different result then we can go back to the status quo of letting the Federalist Society, Heritage Foundation and Fox News fuck with society unimpeded for another century"Your agenda amounts to "take back power and then fuck with conservatives." It's literally an eye for an eye. I mentioned him earlier and will now quote him: "You say you want a revolution? Well, we'd all love to see the plan." Be specific about how you will catch the elephant. I'm not hitching my wagon to a bullshit bus, son.
My approach has worked for more than two centuries. Vote, silly wabbit. Vote. Pound the pavement. Civil disobedience. Be honest with your perspective while respecting others. Decline to rouse rabble. When you claim it is not working now, I point out it worked quite well for the alt-right, who did a better job of turning out the vote than you did.
"Musky Felon" is something people should have been using for a long time now. If it gets confused with Trump or points out he is directly and personally liable for crimes due to DOGE in ways where the statute of limitations are off the table, all the better.I've always thought that you don't anything but his actual name. "Musk" has vaguely unpleasant connotations for me.
Self-censorship as a concept and word shouldn't be lost on you, both in the context of the forum moderation and in terms of coded language around the Right Wing and foreign spies.And how would you rate the likelihood of the above happening? Because I read your post and upvoted it but... You're basically stating there's no option left but violence, if we're being honest. Is that what you meant to say?
I remain opposed to your call for world war 3. Thanks for the still vague manifesto.Ahhh, yes, the "we have tried nothing and are all out of ideas so maybe the 2000th No Kings Protest will engender a different result then we can go back to the status quo of letting the Federalist Society, Heritage Foundation and Fox News fuck with society unimpeded for another century"
Newsflash: Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton and Barack Obama are gone. Not only are they not coming back but there is no conceiveable way any of their rhetoric could get through to the public as it is today nor could they govern in the face of bad faith behavior by the opposition (Obama and Biden tried and failed)
I think with this you've officially conceded the point and in bad faith accused me of not outlining the plan properly to 'get the elephant'
Calling my plan 'short-sighted' and 'fucking with conservatives' also demonstrates you have no vision, aren't paying attention and aren't thinking big picture enough.
You'll notice at no point have I mentioned cancel culture or banning conservatives on social media for posting the shit Charlie Kirk did even if old Twitter moderation would have done so. You can apply economic consequences for this to the conservative population that don't involve publically searchable doxxing databases of Democrats.
My plan also takes into account that uniparty Democratic rule is impossible and would naturally give way to something else in 10, 20 or 30 years but not to the century long Confederate-Fascist institutions of the GOP.
Face it, I've done the bare beginnings of what no Democrat has done to date: acknowledged an opponent that isn't on a level playing field, wants their whites and legal asians as a political punching bag and their minorities outright dead or deported, acknowledged any elections that happen from here on will be a rigged sham or cancelled at random, They then want to allow wealthy immigrants from other countries to buy their way in and indoctrinate them into Western fascism to export back to their home countries.
They've also successfully bred an entire generation of nihilists steeped in victimhood and hypocrisy, one of whom shot Kirk, and in so doing guaranteed that they can't hold power and when they realize that they'll lash out and hurt as many people as possible going down.
And you want to fucking protest and think voting and persuasion alone is enough, that things will swing back to a sane direction with no work beyond emotional pleas to peace.
The irony here is that because of people like you, to even begin to draw up and lay up rhetorical plans and disaster supplies (the liberal faction I am discussing here would have to attempt to replace FEMA on a volunteer basis to gin up public support) it would take exactly the civil disobedient protests you are suggesting on DEMOCRATIC candidates to get them with the fucking program and to concede the political middle has failed and can now be considered an extremist third pole in and of itself.
If you want a historical corollary to what we're facing here it is not Martin Luther King Jr., it is still World War 2. It took both corruption and internal collapse of the Nazis and a boot to their necks to engender a generational fear of returning to fascism and that is what is needed here on Christian Nationalism and the wealthy class. It takes a long time to plan that and fewer street protests getting fodder shot by GOP live ammunition. It won't all be kids dancing in front of rubber bullets to mock the military, which will be bifurcated and weakened with corruption regardless on top of being abhorrently expensive to deploy to merely suppress protests.
You can have enough protests that it's too expensive for the GOP and local law enforcement to react but that had better be backed by a plan to seize power and perform a Nuremburg on the GOP's voters.
Without knowing it you've wholly conceded the point here by abdicating responsibility for outlining a better plan, which is not something I could have said a year ago.
Not only that but the US military and law enforcement are both the most expensive on Earth.I think anyone who would like to believe the GOP and its supporters can continue operating the way they have over the past 6 months in particular, let alone the past ~9 years, without a sharp increase in violence is fooling themselves. We're already seeing this happen.
That's very different from wishing for violence. But yes, if Trump continues the way he had, isn't stopped, and refuses to even really acknowledge he's actually responsible for governing more than a hateful minority, then yes, there absolutely will be violence.
Honestly, I suspect that's what Trump thinks he actually wants right now. You can't just keep pushing people on one side with violent rhetoric and on the other by systematically denying their rights and end up with any other result.
We are desperate for someone, anyone, to look like they're standing up to Trump.I think it's trying something that seems to actually be exciting people.
The problem is, what the right is doing in terms of messaging is working. It's stupid, and that's not what politics should be about in a healthy country, but nevertheless it is. I think you can either choose to acknowledge that and try to play the game, but at least do it somewhat tastefully, or you can likely lose again.
I don't know if there's a way out of this at all for the US, but continuing to do what isn't working is certainly not it. New Zealand is looking kind of nice these days…
At this point your proposition is far more likely to lead to WW3 than mine, haha.I remain opposed to your call for world war 3. Thanks for the still vague manifesto.
They are of course not literally the same thing.Of course not, but we're definitely talking about two different things. JK Rowling has not renounced her first name. Is it deadnaming to call her that? Surely it is just disrespectful or para-social behaviour
edit: I agree it's childish and stupid, but comparing it to trans deadnaming seems incorrect
No, that's not what I meant (but its a very fair question, given my post).And how would you rate the likelihood of the above happening? Because I read your post and upvoted it but... You're basically stating there's no option left but violence, if we're being honest. Is that what you meant to say?
They were found with the rifle. It had a nearly full magazine, even though he only fired one.I saw something in the dead trees newspaper this morning about this. Apparently a casing had a headstamp from the manufacturer. (NRG maybe) Some of the media took that as a message from the shooter, and starting assigning wild ideas based on the 3 letters.
The other etchings (take this, fascist; bella ciao; etc) sounded real. But I'm a little shaky on their timing. Thought there was only one shot, and even that one could have stayed in the rifle. so maybe he threw some bullets around at the shooting site for effect, or they were found with the rifle?