Use parental controls and make it nothing more than a phone. Don't allow apps to be installed.I'm getting so tired of hearing parents cry about their 8 year old being addicted to the internet. Take their phone away. It's truly that simple. Why did you give an 8 year old a phone to begin with? I'm betting the real answer is "to shut them up so I don't have to pay attention to them." I don't care if Purdue Pharma is making cartoons about how cool opioids are, you're the reason they keep watching it. Y'all cram a screen in their face every second they get and then wonder why they shoot up their schools or kill themselves. This kind of crap is why abortion should not only be legal but, in some cases, mandatory.
Why do you give a kid a phone?
Maybe because they leave the house occasionally and need a way to call home to get picked up? When was the last time you saw a pay phone?
Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
No disagreement on parental responsibility being applicable, certainly. I'm talking towards the viewpoint that parental responsibility is the only, or even majority factor.Before the "parents shouldn't have let them use TikTok" comments flood in:
We decided as a society a ways back that parental responsibility did not give companies free-reign to market harmful items to minors.
Such as "Joe Cool" a cartoon camel advertising cigarettes: https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/pr ... w-ftc-says
There's certainly a need to prove (in court) that TikTok is addictive to children, and further that TikTok knowingly engages in pushing this addictiveness towards children.
But parental responsibility is not a shield for companies trying to entice children into harmful addiction generally.
Parental responsibility is not a shield and TikTok should be prosecuted for the crime of marketing an addictive and dangerous product to children. But if TikTok is responsible for the death of the children aged far too young to be using an addictive product (they are), the parents also share responsibility. A parent that gave a 8 year old a cigarette would be negligent (at best). The same applies to TikTok which is far more addictive as anyone who has spent any time on it knows.
Both TikTok and the parents can be in the wrong here, and are.
I downplay parental responsibility relative to corporate because of the difficulties that even a responsible parent is up against. Sure, maybe you don't let your child use TikTok, but then they go to school, and kids on the playground, or they visit a friend and those parents allow TikTok.
An excessive focus on parental responsibility leads to helicopter parenting, as parents are forced to monitor every minute of the child's life or risk being liable for irresponsible parenting if their child comes to harm.
Helicopter parenting is itself not healthy for either parents or children, and if we want to avoid that, then we must have some level of overall agreement that there is a wider responsibility of others in society towards children, including corporations.
So if a child goes to a friends place and their parent gives them a Bud Light and something happens to that child, is the responsibility on the parent, or Budweiser? It's a different world, and parents aren't adapting fast enough. I think part of it is that those (like me, although I don't have kids) grew up just as technology was starting, and we all did things that we shouldn't have with it. We aren't translating that to today, where we should know some tech is dangerous and we shouldn't give our kids, or our kids friends, access to everything that they want.
Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
I agree with your point.
I believe the original video is back up for anyone who is interested.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzosDKcXQ0I&t=708s
When I heard of this I thought there was some sneakily dangerous aspect to this. But like, its pretty obvious that this is super dangerous (similar to people asphyxiating themselves on this story). So many "I almost tried this I didn't think it was dangerous" comments really make me lose faith in people. Sticking a fork in an electrical outlet is safe compared to what is going on here. Maybe that's just my electrical engineering background talking.
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By the end of each you will likely find:
1. You're on your way to being ready to take to the streets.
2. You've on your way to losing faith in human intelligence.
3. You'll be laughing your ass off.
4. You'll consider keeping this account.
Now, the important part. Imagine you've approached this app with the naïvete of a child who is uninformed about the potential risks of a platform like TikTok. Someone who skips videos that bore them and watches videos that stimulate them. Then come to the horrifying realization that TikTok is controlled by an entity who might decide it is a good idea to flick a switch try to make a large group of people more likely to be violent.
"TikTok spends millions researching, analyzing, and experimenting with young children to find ways to make its product more appealing and addictive to these age groups, as these age groups are seen as the key to TikTok's long-term profitability and market dominance," the complaint says.
For the 'watch them constantly' people, remember that parents often have two or more children.
TikTok doesn't have any features that really enable any kind of "groups". In fact, it is designed specifically to prevent that.Those assholes you see weaving around traffic at 30 over the speed limit? Often they're recording and posting on TikTok. There are entire groups on TikTok dedicated solely to making and posting videos of driving dangerously & illegally. They get people killed - gruesomely.
My point is that TikTok is more effective than any of the other platforms....
By the end of each you will likely find:
1. You're on your way to being ready to take to the streets.
2. You've on your way to losing faith in human intelligence.
3. You'll be laughing your ass off.
4. You'll consider keeping this account.
Now, the important part. Imagine you've approached this app with the naïvete of a child who is uninformed about the potential risks of a platform like TikTok. Someone who skips videos that bore them and watches videos that stimulate them. Then come to the horrifying realization that TikTok is controlled by an entity who might decide it is a good idea to flick a switch try to make a large group of people more likely to be violent.
This is all social media though, I don't think TikTok is unique in having a business model that involves a) giving people dopamine hits b) marketing it all as "fun stuff" c) employs (morally bankrupt) psychologists to design for max addiction/views/ad revenue d) has an algorithm that drives people to unhealthy but rewarding content.
From the article:
"TikTok spends millions researching, analyzing, and experimenting with young children to find ways to make its product more appealing and addictive to these age groups, as these age groups are seen as the key to TikTok's long-term profitability and market dominance," the complaint says.
Imagine Facebook's budget for this, or Snapchat, or Youtube, or literally any other "free" social media service.
Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
Another day, another scammer illegally aiming at the deep pockets instead of the guilty party.
TokTok is distributing this content and needs to be held accountable for the deaths it directly caused. Scammers are the ones pretending that corporations can’t be held accountable, like yourself. All internet companies should be held 100% responsible for content. YouTube should never have had rampant piracy, that’s illegal. There was a choice made and it was the wrong choice, we don’t need a free for all online, where free content is exploited irresponsibly. Ars takes responsibility, TikTok can too.
I don't disagree, but here's the thing:Before the "parents shouldn't have let them use TikTok" comments flood in:
We decided as a society a ways back that parental responsibility did not give companies free-reign to market harmful items to minors.
Such as "Joe Cool" a cartoon camel advertising cigarettes: https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/pr ... w-ftc-says
There's certainly a need to prove (in court) that TikTok is addictive to children, and further that TikTok knowingly engages in pushing this addictiveness towards children.
But parental responsibility is not a shield for companies trying to entice children into harmful addiction generally.
You let your eight-year-old willy-nilly walk around the streets? Unless they're going to a friend's house no more than two or three blocks away, they need to be driven, or you walk with them. Once there, they can use the phone there to call for you to come get them, or the parent of the friend can drive them back. We're long past the time when suburban or rural children can walk about without care, and no way in hell should an urban child be left unattended and out of sight.
I saw this one the other day, very tragic.Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
As an electrical engineer I can tell you that I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole (even of known insulative quality) - I certainly have the knowledge and skills to make a "safe" wood burning device for this, but the price of a mistake in design or implementation is quite high.
I happened on a video a while back that showed steps for making a tack welder out of a microwave transformer and was really disturbed by the lack of care about safe handling of very deadly electrical currents.
My point is that TikTok is more effective than any of the other platforms....
By the end of each you will likely find:
1. You're on your way to being ready to take to the streets.
2. You've on your way to losing faith in human intelligence.
3. You'll be laughing your ass off.
4. You'll consider keeping this account.
Now, the important part. Imagine you've approached this app with the naïvete of a child who is uninformed about the potential risks of a platform like TikTok. Someone who skips videos that bore them and watches videos that stimulate them. Then come to the horrifying realization that TikTok is controlled by an entity who might decide it is a good idea to flick a switch try to make a large group of people more likely to be violent.
This is all social media though, I don't think TikTok is unique in having a business model that involves a) giving people dopamine hits b) marketing it all as "fun stuff" c) employs (morally bankrupt) psychologists to design for max addiction/views/ad revenue d) has an algorithm that drives people to unhealthy but rewarding content.
From the article:
"TikTok spends millions researching, analyzing, and experimenting with young children to find ways to make its product more appealing and addictive to these age groups, as these age groups are seen as the key to TikTok's long-term profitability and market dominance," the complaint says.
Imagine Facebook's budget for this, or Snapchat, or Youtube, or literally any other "free" social media service.
Edit:
Name another platform that can start with no data and in 30-60 minutes be reliably delivering what is most likely to keep a user engaged.
You can control your kids' phones, but you can't control kids friends' phone, and kids can share contents by passing a phone to different kids, which completely bypass any parental control software.Use parental controls and make it nothing more than a phone. Don't allow apps to be installed.I'm getting so tired of hearing parents cry about their 8 year old being addicted to the internet. Take their phone away. It's truly that simple. Why did you give an 8 year old a phone to begin with? I'm betting the real answer is "to shut them up so I don't have to pay attention to them." I don't care if Purdue Pharma is making cartoons about how cool opioids are, you're the reason they keep watching it. Y'all cram a screen in their face every second they get and then wonder why they shoot up their schools or kill themselves. This kind of crap is why abortion should not only be legal but, in some cases, mandatory.
Why do you give a kid a phone?
Maybe because they leave the house occasionally and need a way to call home to get picked up? When was the last time you saw a pay phone?
Low voltage with high (and galvanically isolated) current is safER, but not completely safe and should still be treated with respect.I saw this one the other day, very tragic.Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
As an electrical engineer I can tell you that I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole (even of known insulative quality) - I certainly have the knowledge and skills to make a "safe" wood burning device for this, but the price of a mistake in design or implementation is quite high.
I happened on a video a while back that showed steps for making a tack welder out of a microwave transformer and was really disturbed by the lack of care about safe handling of very deadly electrical currents.
Welders are fine, beyond the basic "don't lick the live wire" safety steps. You cut off the high-voltage secondary and put in a two-turn low-voltage secondary instead. You can burn yourself badly with it, and you'll have a _very_ bad day if you stab yourself with both contacts but you'd have to work pretty hard to kill yourself with it.
I'm getting so tired of hearing parents cry about their 8 year old being addicted to the internet. Take their phone away. It's truly that simple. Why did you give an 8 year old a phone to begin with? I'm betting the real answer is "to shut them up so I don't have to pay attention to them." I don't care if Purdue Pharma is making cartoons about how cool opioids are, you're the reason they keep watching it. Y'all cram a screen in their face every second they get and then wonder why they shoot up their schools or kill themselves. This kind of crap is why abortion should not only be legal but, in some cases, mandatory.
Why do you give a kid a phone?
Maybe because they leave the house occasionally and need a way to call home to get picked up? When was the last time you saw a pay phone?
Low voltage with high (and galvanically isolated) current is safER, but not completely safe and should still be treated with respect.I saw this one the other day, very tragic.Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
As an electrical engineer I can tell you that I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole (even of known insulative quality) - I certainly have the knowledge and skills to make a "safe" wood burning device for this, but the price of a mistake in design or implementation is quite high.
I happened on a video a while back that showed steps for making a tack welder out of a microwave transformer and was really disturbed by the lack of care about safe handling of very deadly electrical currents.
Welders are fine, beyond the basic "don't lick the live wire" safety steps. You cut off the high-voltage secondary and put in a two-turn low-voltage secondary instead. You can burn yourself badly with it, and you'll have a _very_ bad day if you stab yourself with both contacts but you'd have to work pretty hard to kill yourself with it.
The main reason low voltage is safer is that dry skin resistance is quite high ~100kOhm. But there are two key points, skin is the main resistance point, internal resistance across the chest is in the neighborhood of 500-1000Ohm. And it's greatly reduced when it's not dry, sweat, in particular, is not just water, but electrolytes, and it can bring skin resistance down by 2 orders of magnitude.
In that case even low voltages can be dangerous if the current is not limited. So if making one of those types of tack welders, take the time to put insulation on anything that sweaty skin might contact. And properly enclose the transformer - the video I saw had it mounted open on a board.
Of course, many orders of magnitude safer than the 2-4kV used in the wood burning, those videos are horrifying.
"I abandoned my child to the Internet because I was too busy with my own life... it's not my fault."
I'm getting so tired of hearing parents cry about their 8 year old being addicted to the internet. Take their phone away. It's truly that simple. Why did you give an 8 year old a phone to begin with? I'm betting the real answer is "to shut them up so I don't have to pay attention to them." I don't care if Purdue Pharma is making cartoons about how cool opioids are, you're the reason they keep watching it. Y'all cram a screen in their face every second they get and then wonder why they shoot up their schools or kill themselves. This kind of crap is why abortion should not only be legal but, in some cases, mandatory.
Why do you give a kid a phone?
Maybe because they leave the house occasionally and need a way to call home to get picked up? When was the last time you saw a pay phone?
You let your eight-year-old willy-nilly walk around the streets? Unless they're going to a friend's house no more than two or three blocks away, they need to be driven, or you walk with them. Once there, they can use the phone there to call for you to come get them, or the parent of the friend can drive them back. We're long past the time when suburban or rural children can walk about without care, and no way in hell should an urban child be left unattended and out of sight.
My daughter sure as hell didn't have access to social media, etc. at 8 or 9 years old.
That's not actually a very good way to protect her. As people have pointed out, she WILL see that stuff even if you don't know about it and even if it's not very often.
Better is to make sure that, by 8 or 9 years old, she knows that the Internet is full of fakes and idiots, and anything that seems dodgy probably is. And specifically that anything labelled as a "challenge" is trying to get you to do something moronic and self destructive.
I scroll through TikTok everyday before bed. I just see bad jokes, woodworking and furniture making videos, cosplay, cosplay thirst traps, thirst traps, corporate millennial jokes, work from home jokes, and dog videos.
Where are all these "challenges"?
To those of you who haven't tried TikTok, you would probably do well to do so and learn just how incredibly powerful and potentially addictive the algorithm is.
Making an account is incredibly easy. I suggest the following exercises, on seperate accounts, they should each take about a half hour to an hour.
1. Any video that makes you feel angry about people, politicians and such behaving badly, watch in full. Skip the rest.
2. Any video that sounds even remotely like a conspiracy theory, watch in full. Skip the rest.
3. Any video that makes you smile or laugh, watch in full. Skip the rest.
4. Any video that makes you feel like you learnt something new or interesting, watch in full. Skip the rest.
By the end of each you will likely find:
1. You're on your way to being ready to take to the streets.
2. You've on your way to losing faith in human intelligence.
3. You'll be laughing your ass off.
4. You'll consider keeping this account.
Now, the important part. Imagine you've approached this app with the naïvete of a child who is uninformed about the potential risks of a platform like TikTok. Someone who skips videos that bore them and watches videos that stimulate them. Then come to the horrifying realization that TikTok is controlled by an entity who might decide it is a good idea to flick a switch try to make a large group of people more likely to be violent.
Before the "parents shouldn't have let them use TikTok" comments flood in:
We decided as a society a ways back that parental responsibility did not give companies free-reign to market harmful items to minors.
Such as "Joe Cool" a cartoon camel advertising cigarettes: https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/pr ... w-ftc-says
There's certainly a need to prove (in court) that TikTok is addictive to children, and further that TikTok knowingly engages in pushing this addictiveness towards children.
But parental responsibility is not a shield for companies trying to entice children into harmful addiction generally.
Now to make a viral video promoting my "Uninstall TikTok" Challenge.
This is dead easy to solve. Don't give your young children a phone and exercise constraints on when or where they can use other devices like games or computers.
It really is that easy. Our girls didn't get a phone until they were 13 and they didn't have a television or computer in their own bedrooms until they could buy their own. Sure they whinged about it solidly from maybe age 10 but hey, parents have responsibilities and we explained why. By 13 we'd had all the necessary conversations, and so had the school (which by the way, is one of the few state schools that doesn't allow any use of phones in school for anyone aged under 18 and hasn't so far undergone societal collapse).
This is not rocket science and although there are always going to be tragedies like these in the article, and sometimes it will make sense to prosecute or legislate, eventually parents do actually have to be responsible. (Someone else has already made the point that just because other parents are too lazy or daft or don't care doesn't mean you have to follow the herd.)
You sound like someone who is completely detached from the realities faced by families with two parents who are likely to be working a combined (minimum) 80 hours a week. Edit, this on top of homemaking.
No disagreement on parental responsibility being applicable, certainly. I'm talking towards the viewpoint that parental responsibility is the only, or even majority factor.Before the "parents shouldn't have let them use TikTok" comments flood in:
We decided as a society a ways back that parental responsibility did not give companies free-reign to market harmful items to minors.
Such as "Joe Cool" a cartoon camel advertising cigarettes: https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/pr ... w-ftc-says
There's certainly a need to prove (in court) that TikTok is addictive to children, and further that TikTok knowingly engages in pushing this addictiveness towards children.
But parental responsibility is not a shield for companies trying to entice children into harmful addiction generally.
Parental responsibility is not a shield and TikTok should be prosecuted for the crime of marketing an addictive and dangerous product to children. But if TikTok is responsible for the death of the children aged far too young to be using an addictive product (they are), the parents also share responsibility. A parent that gave a 8 year old a cigarette would be negligent (at best). The same applies to TikTok which is far more addictive as anyone who has spent any time on it knows.
Both TikTok and the parents can be in the wrong here, and are.
I downplay parental responsibility relative to corporate because of the difficulties that even a responsible parent is up against. Sure, maybe you don't let your child use TikTok, but then they go to school, and kids on the playground, or they visit a friend and those parents allow TikTok.
An excessive focus on parental responsibility leads to helicopter parenting, as parents are forced to monitor every minute of the child's life or risk being liable for irresponsible parenting if their child comes to harm.
Helicopter parenting is itself not healthy for either parents or children, and if we want to avoid that, then we must have some level of overall agreement that there is a wider responsibility of others in society towards children, including corporations.
So if a child goes to a friends place and their parent gives them a Bud Light and something happens to that child, is the responsibility on the parent, or Budweiser? It's a different world, and parents aren't adapting fast enough. I think part of it is that those (like me, although I don't have kids) grew up just as technology was starting, and we all did things that we shouldn't have with it. We aren't translating that to today, where we should know some tech is dangerous and we shouldn't give our kids, or our kids friends, access to everything that they want.
Social media challenges are Intelligence tests. If you take the challenge, you've failed.Just last night I joked that doing anything that had the words "TikTok" and "Challenge" in the same sentence was pretty much a death sentence.
I hadn't even heard of this one.
Jesus. I'm half-convinced there's rogue, atavistic eugenicists out there trying to pick people off before they reproduce.
I saw this one the other day, very tragic.Ann Reardon wrote about a trend in YouTube that has killed over thirty adults verified to date so far. The wood burning thing with electricity. Nobody cares though and her video was pulled because it was dangerous... These companies need to show the most bare minimum of due diligence imo.
https://youtu.be/GZrynWtBDTE
As an electrical engineer I can tell you that I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole (even of known insulative quality) - I certainly have the knowledge and skills to make a "safe" wood burning device for this, but the price of a mistake in design or implementation is quite high.
I happened on a video a while back that showed steps for making a tack welder out of a microwave transformer and was really disturbed by the lack of care about safe handling of very deadly electrical currents.
Welders are fine, beyond the basic "don't lick the live wire" safety steps. You cut off the high-voltage secondary and put in a two-turn low-voltage secondary instead. You can burn yourself badly with it, and you'll have a _very_ bad day if you stab yourself with both contacts but you'd have to work pretty hard to kill yourself with it.